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TOPIC: We_talk_but_can't_but_can't_get_any_farther
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We concur about the necessity of pictures, even if you keep any pictures showing your faces as private pictures that you only show to people with whom you have established enough interest to proceed any further.

We have found the easiest way to get conversation flowing is to ask people about themselves. Most people love to talk about how they got into swinging, how long they've been swinging, what were some of the best & worst experiences they've had, etc. Ask where they grew up, or where they went to school, what they majored in, do they have any kids, etc., etc. In other words, get people talking about themselves! Everybody is willing to talk about themselves!

As mentioned below, just talk to people like you would if you found yourself sharing a table at a restaurant. Be friendly, and show an interest in getting to know the people beyond just their bra size and penis size!!!

And remember, sincerity means everything. If you can fake that, you've got it made! :-)

Jim That generally breaks the ice

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OP, everyone will tell you that until you get some pics you aren't going to have much luck. We don't even search through profiles that have no pics. Even if you have them in privates, you need at least a few. As far as not knowing what to say. There is no magic to this, just being open and friendly. Just talk to other swingers like you talk to everyone else that you meet. Be warm and engaging, friendly and interesting. You will do fine. Shelly

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We skip right over profiles without pics.

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I would say you need pictures on your profile. people may loose interest because they don't know what you look like.

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