Single guys no not the same old complaint: Swingers Discussion 1929271011

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Single guys no not the same old complaint: Swingers Discussion 1929271011

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TOPIC: Single guys - no not the same old complaint

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User Details are only visible to members.	Well, if you lived closer to me, I would show up. Sadly we are far too far apart from each other to even consider a meet up. :-(
Hazle Township PA			Username hidden (4778 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	i think it really depends, theres a lot of BS here couples, single females, single males thats the way of the world. u gotta take it with a grain of salt and keep moving on!
Glenside PA			Username hidden (35 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	well yes that goes on all the time but have to tell you.....cples have become so bs prone and so drama we decided to give a few sm's a try and they have been FAR more bs free then cples.....but to the guys reading this we are on a sm break for a while.
New Hyde Park NY			Username hidden (31 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think sometimes it's just the nature of busy lives.......and sometimes manners get throw by the wayside. Of course, I'm sure lots of times it's solo males that have no intention of actually meeting, or they get too scared to go through with it. Joey, I can tell you this....it's certainly not the F there. (and no offense meant to the Mr. by that) ;) If I hadn't moved away from Nashville, I would be thrilled to be able to meet such a lovely and sexy woman as her. I'm only sure there are many others that feel the same way. Definitely not you.
Weatherby Lake MO			Username hidden (71 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Who knows. We've had to cancel for legit reasons. I work an oncall night job 7 days a week. Im home but can be called out at anytime without warning. Sometimes I dont get called for 3 days and other times Im out 5 times a night. It all depends on police arresting someone or someone wrecking their car. (I drive a wrecker) We warn people in advance about that. If they live pretty close, we try to meet anyway and take our chances but tell them what I do and what may happen. I used to take the night off or at least a few hours off when we were meeting someone but all that resulted in was losing a lot of money, irritating my boss, and waiting on someone to show up that never did. Now we;ll meet the first time. And the second time when we set to play, then Ill make arrangements
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I wonder what goes through peoples heads though. I dont know if its the answer but it almost seems when we chat they get an attack of the lazies. Usually while texting back and forth, working out a place to meet, somewhere in that short conversation the other party just disappears. Something like Him: You guys want to meet tomorrow? Us: Sure we;re free after 7 Him: Great me too Us: Do you have somewhere in mind to meet? We dont know the area yet. Us: U there? Us: Hello? Or we set up to meet. Him: Sounds great. Cant wait. Text me tomorrow when youre ready to leave Us: Will do. We get home about 6 and we;ll text you at 7 when we're heading out Next day Us: Hey, we just got out of the shower, leaving in 10 mins. Us: Hello? Us: Anyone home? Ring ring ring ring: Voicemail. Or Same day. Us: Leaving in 10 mins Him: Me too Us: Text/call us when you pull in. We'll meet you outside Him: Will do 20 minutes after the meet time. Us: You ok? Us: Hello? Come back home. Go online and there he is jerking off on his webcam on another site. With this kind of stuff happening so often, we keep looking at ourselves to see if its us. If there is something that we are doing to cause this. We cant find anything. And when it comes to couples. We have never once been stood up, or had a couple play games with us. I dont think we;ll ever figure it out
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Some great observations in this thread. But none better than Lost's: "when you say okay, show me what you've got they realize that now they are going to have to live up to their crapulance.." Lol, don't she have a way with words? And non-words.
San Quentin CA			Username hidden (8604 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well said Joey
Harrisonburg VA			Username hidden (150 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Polly, first, you two look like a great cpl. Secondly, how or why a guy would or could mess up a meeting with that gorgeous woman of yours is just mind-boggling.
Weatherby Lake MO			Username hidden (71 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Our number one complaint with single guys. Especially the young generation which is our target. I think a lot has to do with society as a whole. We have switched from doing things in-person to everything is electronic. Drive around a neighborhood in the summer. Years ago, there would be kids everywhere playing outside, sports, building forts.....You name it. Take a look now. The streets are empty. The kids are inside all summer in front of the computer, or playing video games. As an employer more and more I encounter new prospects who lack very basic social skills. They do not possess the basic ability to interact socially in person. They have unrealistic expectations and a pretty far out view of how the real world actually runs. I dont think its far fetched to say that spills over into this lifestyle. People play online poker now. Where they used to get together with friends and play with real cards. Any kind of porn is available right at your fingertips. No more jerking off to 20 year old playboys. You can come on a site like this and get the thrill and rush of any activity you fantasize about. And then the added climax of the thought of actually doing it for real. But when it comes down to it. You actually do have to get showered, get dressed, meet strangers and then be expected to try something new and perform to the level you said you could online. To many. Its easier to masturbate to the thought of doing it, than to go through with it. Then real life sets in. We have it happen ourselves. We're online, horny, chatting it up, making plans for next week and we cant wait. Next week comes. I got stuck late at work. The dog puked on the carpet. We got an unexpected bill. Had a crappy stressful day. And now we're supposed to get showered, shaved, and go meet someone for a night of sex when all we want to do is put our PJ's on and crawl into bed. Then you do have people who are not what they say they are. Single guys who are married, who cant get away. Or real dishonest people who dont match their profile or pics. (Though those are the ones who usually show up thinking we'll overlook the 20 year and 100 pound discrepancy) So for various reasons what sounds good right now, while its late at night and theyre masturbating to your pics..........A few days later when real life is involved.....It doesnt have the same sense of urgency
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

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