Robert, seems to almost always be the case for me on here.

Well, if you lived closer to me, I would show up. Sadly we are far too far apart from each other to even consider a meet up. :-(

i think it really depends, theres a lot of BS here couples, single females, single males thats the way of the world. u gotta take it with a grain of salt and keep moving on!

well yes that goes on all the time but have to tell you.....cples have become so bs prone and so drama we decided to give a few sm's a try and they have been FAR more bs free then cples.....but to the guys reading this we are on a sm break for a while.

I think sometimes it's just the nature of busy lives.......and sometimes manners get throw by the wayside. Of course, I'm sure lots of times it's solo males that have no intention of actually meeting, or they get too scared to go through with it.

Joey, I can tell you this....it's certainly not the F there. (and no offense meant to the Mr. by that) ;)

If I hadn't moved away from Nashville, I would be thrilled to be able to meet such a lovely and sexy woman as her. I'm only sure there are many others that feel the same way. Definitely not you.

Who knows. We've had to cancel for legit reasons. I work an oncall night job 7 days a week. Im home but can be called out at anytime without warning. Sometimes I dont get called for 3 days and other times Im out 5 times a night. It all depends on police arresting someone or someone wrecking their car. (I drive a wrecker) We warn people in advance about that. If they live pretty close, we try to meet anyway and take our chances but tell them what I do and what may happen. I used to take the night off or at least a few hours off when we were meeting someone but all that resulted in was losing a lot of money, irritating my boss, and waiting on someone to show up that never did. Now we;ll meet the first time. And the second time when we set to play, then Ill make arrangements

Lol,that's weird, the exact same thing happens to me ,except reversed...We go back and forth right up until it's time to confirm plans then they vanish..Maybe there's something wrong with me.something that is turning them off at the last second.

I wonder what goes through peoples heads though. I dont know if its the answer but it almost seems when we chat they get an attack of the lazies. Usually while texting back and forth, working out a place to meet, somewhere in that short conversation the other party just disappears. Something like Him: You guys want to meet tomorrow? Us: Sure we;re free after 7 Him: Great me too Us: Do you have somewhere in mind to meet? We dont know the area yet. Us: U there? Us: Hello? Or we set up to meet. Him: Sounds great. Cant wait. Text me tomorrow when youre ready to leave Us: Will do. We get home about 6 and we;ll text you at 7 when we're heading out Next day Us: Hey, we just got out of the shower, leaving in 10 mins. Us: Hello? Us: Anyone home? Ring ring ring ring: Voicemail. Or Same day. Us: Leaving in 10 mins Him: Me too Us: Text/call us when you pull in. We'll meet you outside Him: Will do 20 minutes after the meet time. Us: You ok? Us: Hello? Come back home. Go online and there he is jerking off on his webcam on another site. With this kind of stuff happening so often, we keep looking at ourselves to see if its us. If there is something that we are doing to cause this. We cant find anything. And when it comes to couples. We have never once been stood up, or had a couple play games with us. I dont think we;ll ever figure it out

Some great observations in this thread. But none better than Lost's:

"when you say okay, show me what you've got they realize that now they are going to have to live up to their crapulance.."

Lol, don't she have a way with words? And non-words.

It absolutely does go both ways, I'm experienced in the LS and have a hard time finding couples who are for real,and ones who actually follow through with plans made,and Joey is dead on about the young generation,it's the age of facebook and social media, everything is dumbed down,and it's not just restricted to men, I find this a lot even with women my age in the regular dating vanilla world, a majority have no idea how to interact with someone face to face.It's exactly why I tend to be attracted to those that are older.I don't give a crap about the Jersey Shore or what happens to the people on it,or reality TV,celebrities or their lifestyles.