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I wonder what goes through peoples heads though. I dont know if its the answer but it almost seems when we chat they get an attack of the lazies.

Usually while texting back and forth, working out a place to meet, somewhere in that short conversation the other party just disappears.

Something like

Him: You guys want to meet tomorrow? Us: Sure we;re free after 7 Him: Great me too Us: Do you have somewhere in mind to meet? We dont know the area yet. Us: U there? Us: Hello?

Or we set up to meet.

Him: Sounds great. Cant wait. Text me tomorrow when youre ready to leave Us: Will do. We get home about 6 and we;ll text you at 7 when we're heading out

Next day

Us: Hey, we just got out of the shower, leaving in 10 mins. Us: Hello? Us: Anyone home?

Ring ring ring ring: Voicemail.

Or Same day.

Us: Leaving in 10 mins Him: Me too Us: Text/call us when you pull in. We'll meet you outside Him: Will do

20 minutes after the meet time.

Us: You ok? Us: Hello?

Come back home. Go online and there he is jerking off on his webcam on another site.

With this kind of stuff happening so often, we keep looking at ourselves to see if its us. If there is something that we are doing to cause this. We cant find anything.

And when it comes to couples. We have never once been stood up, or had a couple play games with us.

I dont think we;ll ever figure it out

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Some great observations in this thread. But none better than Lost's:

"when you say okay, show me what you've got they realize that now they are going to have to live up to their crapulance.."

Lol, don't she have a way with words? And non-words.

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Polly, first, you two look like a great cpl. Secondly, how or why a guy would or could mess up a meeting with that gorgeous woman of yours is just mind-boggling.

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Our number one complaint with single guys. Especially the young generation which is our target.

I think a lot has to do with society as a whole. We have switched from doing things in-person to everything is electronic. Drive around a neighborhood in the summer. Years ago, there would be kids everywhere playing outside, sports, building forts.....You name it.

Take a look now. The streets are empty. The kids are inside all summer in front of the computer, or playing video games.

As an employer more and more I encounter new prospects who lack very basic social skills. They do not possess the basic ability to interact socially in person. They have unrealistic expectations and a pretty far out view of how the real world actually runs.

I dont think its far fetched to say that spills over into this lifestyle.

People play online poker now. Where they used to get together with friends and play with real cards.

Any kind of porn is available right at your fingertips. No more jerking off to 20 year old playboys.

You can come on a site like this and get the thrill and rush of any activity you fantasize about. And then the added climax of the thought of actually doing it for real.

But when it comes down to it. You actually do have to get showered, get dressed, meet strangers and then be expected to try something new and perform to the level you said you could online.

To many. Its easier to masturbate to the thought of doing it, than to go through with it.

Then real life sets in. We have it happen ourselves. We're online, horny, chatting it up, making plans for next week and we cant wait.

Next week comes. I got stuck late at work. The dog puked on the carpet. We got an unexpected bill. Had a crappy stressful day. And now we're supposed to get showered, shaved, and go meet someone for a night of sex when all we want to do is put our PJ's on and crawl into bed.

Then you do have people who are not what they say they are. Single guys who are married, who cant get away.

Or real dishonest people who dont match their profile or pics. (Though those are the ones who usually show up thinking we'll overlook the 20 year and 100 pound discrepancy)

So for various reasons what sounds good right now, while its late at night and theyre masturbating to your pics..........A few days later when real life is involved.....It doesnt have the same sense of urgency

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As many have said, I think it goes both ways. I've made 2 dates on this site and showed up for both of them. I figure, if I paid the money to be here, made the effort to communicate and then made the committment, why chicken out? I would have had plenty of chances to do that before the night of the big dance.

So - if you're every in Minnesota.....

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but shel ...... I would be rock hard for you ...... I can say that as I am not planning a trip to texas any time soon so i don't need to prove it ;-).

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Would have to agree it goes both ways also. The few who I have spoken with seems to be guys posing as a couple.

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I think there is a lot of guys that just get scared.

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Ready, A feature fo the site is that you do NOT have to open mail to read it. We don't OPEN it as when you do it moves to one of numerous folders.....a feature I HATE. We leave all mail on the main page unless we response or delete.

Just some FYI...if it says unopened it's still been READ

Mrs Sav

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It does go both ways. I can not tell you how many emails that I have sent to couples that were seeking males and 1) they don't respond or 2) You email them and they don't even read it. And you saw them on line several times after you emailed them.

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