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TOPIC: SLS mail
Created by: JackDarlene
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Has anyone had issues with 'disappearing mail' in SLS? I can see msgs that we've sent over a month ago sitting unread by the recipient when we know that the recipient is on almost daily. This isn't affecting only one recipient, either. I'm not sure if there's an issue with the mail or we're just being ignored or what.

JnD

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Scotty...it's not so much a matter of non-response as of non-receipt of the mail in the first place. We were talking with a cpl we'd mailed in SLS (I can still see the mail sitting out there, unread) and they said they'd never gotten it. Now I trust them enuff to believe that they're not shining us on there. That means that there Might Possibly be an issue with sent mail not appearing in the appropriate Inbox in SLS. That was the root of my question.

You're right, non-response Is a response. Non-receipt is something else.

JnD

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god this email thing gets old..... if people aren't responding to your email then that's your response, deal with it and move on.

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BGLovers...actually, we used to be club regulars for several years. Made every event, assisted with setups and teardowns and anything else we could do to support the club and help out. Not sure if we're just not outgoing enough for others or we weren't beautiful enough. We eventually got tired of hearing all about the great parties that we were never invited to and fighting the cliques so we just quit going. Never did make a single acquaintance who had any interest in hearing from us outside of a club event. We've visited other clubs and weren't real happy there either.

Yes, clubs are great for meeting a lot of people, particularly if you're new and/or beautiful. Just don't expect much of anything to result, though, if you're not. We're happy for you that you've had such good results with your club however and hope that it continues like that for you. We're flying solo.

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Lol JnD....and thanks :o)

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Spicey, I just can't imagine anyone ignoring you (and I have a very good imagination <G>). Nice pic's.

I'm still not convinced, though, that the ppl who're showing as 'unread' on the mail we sent them almost 3 mo's ago are just ignoring us. I emailed another cpl at their vanilla address and they responded that they haven't gotten our SLS msgs to them and I know they've been on SLS recently. We're acquainted enuff with the other cpl to trust their responce.

Anyone else ever hear that someone tried to msg them in SLS but it never got to the intended recipient?

JnD

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You can hit mail history in the mailbox and read the message without opening it. We have done that on occasion when we can not respond right away or we both are not there. that has happened to us too...don't feel bad :o) sassy

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Then I guess we're being ignored

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Mail doesn't need to be opened to be read.

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Has anyone had issues with 'disappearing mail' in SLS? I can see msgs that we've sent over a month ago sitting unread by the recipient when we know that the recipient is on almost daily. This isn't affecting only one recipient, either. I'm not sure if there's an issue with the mail or we're just being ignored or what.

JnD

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