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Last night we got an IM from a guy that was way too young for us. I did answer and explained that we are looking for guys trhat were a bit older. He was very polite and thanked us for being nice.

Nice and polite goes both ways

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They did you a favor. Would you Really want to hook up with someone who could act that way? If they'd ignored you, you'd never have known how rude they could get and might have run into them at a party somewhere. If they hadn't blocked you, you could send them a nice thank-you note expressing your gratitude at their helpfully removing themselves from your lives. :-) Don't you suppose they'd be frosted? ROFL.

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whats even worse to me is when they dont even bother to READ the email .. it stays unread .. a no thanks reply is much preferred

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A simple reply of "Not interested" is the least one can do in reply to an email. I am sorry, but there is no reason to be rude. I understand how one can be frustrated by a person who emailed without obviously reading your profile. Frankly, even then as "Not Interested" reply should be sufficient. Real folks will simply make a note on your profile, and walk away. Jerks can easily be blocked.

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Yeah, there are a lot of rude people in the lifestyle and no, it doesn't make any sense. If you are really and truly wanting to have sex with a variety of people (and that is what Swinging is really about) then you have to be friendly and know how to sell and present yourself. Which means you need social skills. Which some "swingers" are lacking in. Personaly I have noticed two different phenomena when it comes to people who CLAIM to be swingers but don't seem to be doing a whole lot. In the fake department there are two dead giveaways. Number one is the person bragging about how horny they are, how they dont' care about appearance, yatta, yatta, yatta. The other is the person with nearly impossible standards. In regards to the first type, with one exception everybody I ever contacted or who contacted me with a profile like that turned out to be a phony. IE when I said, 'yeah, I am interested" they no-showed, disseapeared off the internet or in my favorite example, changed their profile the next day, LOL... I think with those types of folks, swinging is just a fantasy and they are not ready to make the fantasy a reality. I also notice most of those types don't have any photos in their profiles either. In regards to the other type, if you are some dude in a rural town and you have convinced your wife, "yeah baby, were swingers, but you can only hump a guy with an eight or nine inch johnson, because anything less you allready got at home" - you pretty much have ensured that you don't have to share your ole lady with another man. Most guys in the lifestyle (or anyplace else) don't have that kind of equipment. If they did, they would be appearing in porn movies. That's reality. Honestly, there are a lot of people floating around in the lifestyle who have no business there. Especially people who have jealousy issues. Various 'swappers" I have met over the years who think they have to keep score come immediatly to mind. Just keep looking and eventually you will find some wonderful partners.

Look at the bright side, at least you GOT a response, even if it was a negative one.

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Read#9 and #17 on our profile. You are right. People are pompus assholes. We stay away from people like that. But here's a story that might make you feel better. At a Meet & Greet we saw a couple confront another couple that had blew them off on SLS. The pompus couple was so rattled by this that it made them feel out of place within the group and they soon departed. So....I guess there is some justice in the world.

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People are busy, this is the holiday season. Being new to the site you have to realize that not everyone reads their emails asap, nor do they answer them that fast. I agree you have to say more than just hi. As stated in our profile we do not answer emails such as that. Just because you think your hot doesnt mean other people see you that way. Attitude is everything. Good Luck and welcome to SLS.

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MikeandMeg if you were closer to our age we'd answer your emails

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You may indeed be hot...but sometimes that is not enough :0).


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We have gotten the same comment about tattoos. It is stated in our profile that she has several tattoos and if you read the profile you would know that so why would you even respond if you don't like something.

As far as age, we set our lower limits because we have kids that are in their twenties and it would feel weird to her to go out with a guy that is the same age as one of our sons.

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