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Created by: prettyprgirl
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Asking for advice. Is our profile to boring? We seem to get a lot of chatting that doesn't lead to anything. We also wasn't to know of groups that may get together for meet and greets. Any advise would be appreciated.
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A lot of people will pass over your profile if you don't have pictures open....

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We've met a lot of people without certs as well, but we simply won't go out of our way to do so with those who don't have any, given how many times we've been stood up by uncertified profiles. There are just so many fakes out there. We don't view certs as having anything to do with a couple's sexual history (that's certainly NOT the case for the certs we give and receive).

Isn't there a way for SLS to certify a profile as real? I thought I read that somewhere, but I could be wrong.

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That's true M... our two certs are from years ago. We don't accept any new certs because of our privacy preferences.

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Ha! Great minds lix.... ;)

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Thank you for the responses. I created the profile a few years ago and decided I was not ready for this lifestyle, which is why it seems we were members for so long. We recently started using the site again. I will definitely take the advise and update the profile. Thank You all.

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That's funny we wrote that at the same time, Cayne! Lol

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The biggest question that comes to mind is what about him? There are no pics of him and there's virtually no written description. Combine that with the fact that you've been on SLS for a few years and have no certs and there's no way we would go out of our way to meet anyone with such a profile. You'd be more than welcomed to come out to a club if we were already going there, but...

Suggestions: add pics (classy body shots for the public, face pics in prviate) and describe him. Then, meet anyone you can to get a cert so you can get some credibility.

If it wasn't for you being paid members, we'd assume it was a fake profile or was written by someone who really isn't serious about meeting.

Good luck!

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My biggest issue with your profile is that you have no shots (public or otherwise) of the male half of your couple. You need more photos in general but you definitely need some of him. In the fantasy section the female half of your couple has a paragraph... whereas the male half has a short sentence. You might want to fill that out. Other than a few grammatical/spelling errors (discreet instead of discrete for instance) nothing else is striking me.

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Asking for advice. Is our profile to boring? We seem to get a lot of chatting that doesn't lead to anything. We also wasn't to know of groups that may get together for meet and greets. Any advise would be appreciated.

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