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TOPIC: Meeting Preference: Couple To Couple or at a Club-Meet N Greet-Party
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I have been meeting at events and clubs only for years. I have a great large group of like minded and happy friends. The one on one meetings got tiresome and boring, at a club when the attraction isnt there you have not wasted getting dressed, putting your best foot foreward.

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Most meet & greets are a waste of time with the cliques you find there and the people who are always looking to trade up to a hotter couple while they are talking with another couple. Also, meet & greets are full of pseudo-swingers who never actually play with anyone.

We always like to meet couples one on one and if a couple looks like their pics when we meet them and has the same personality we saw when we chatted (as we do) then we are willing to 'invest' the time in them when we meet them to see if we click enough to play.

In addition, we try to 'pre-qualify' couples to see who is really full swap before we agree to meet them and doing that at a meet & greet usually takes a lot of time and usually results in our going home alone.

Bottom line, if you are wannabes or pretend swingers meet & greets are the way to go. If you are serious and really do want to play with people get to know a couple through chat etc and then meet them one on one.

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As you can guess there comes a point where one hates to view things relative to their age, but there aint a damn thing we can do about it except quit and that just is not going to happen. We pretty much limit our outreach to those over 50. Sometimes we get surprised but 50+ nonetheless. Clubs seem to be filled with younger couples and don't often allow extra males. Couple to Couple from the SLS site quite often turns out to be a miss, as many have experienced. House parties (not hotel) of 50-60 people, that allow a one to ten ratio of extra males is by far the easiest for us. However the house parties are hard to find. Though there is a huge amount of vetting, us to the single male has yielded some delightful results

Pasadena CA
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we have done both club meet and greet and house parties they are both good its just depends if you score the only drawback on clubs they start partying late after midnite where house parties by eight its on

Harlingen TX
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We have the same problem but with a twist. If we have a free weekend we are almost always in a strange city due to work. Like you, we have found that meeting with individual couples can be very hit or miss. We have had much better luck with parties (not so much m&g's). We sign up as soon as we know we are free that weekend. We also put up a hot date listing saying we're going to be at the party and open our private pics to anyone on the list we think we might be interested in. Even if we don't end up playing, we always have a great time dancing and meeting other fun couples.

Virginia Beach VA
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Like many here, we have extremely busy schedules, so we usually only have one day per week (if that) that we can meet new people in the lifestyle. Just wondering what others' preference is - do you like to find another couple and set up a two-on-two meeting with them somewhere (restaurant, bar, whatever), or do you prefer going to a club/party/meet n' greet and just introducing yourselves?

We have had issues with both. If the couple to couple meeting doesn't have any chemistry (we've had a LOT of these...more recently, which is odd since we feel like we're more comfortable about meeting "newbies" now), we feel like we've wasted our time. On the other hand, we think it's MUCH harder to meet new people at clubs/parties/meet n' greets, as they tend to be very "cliquey" and we wind up spending time with people we already know.

There's no "right" answer here, of course...just wondering what others' experience has been and any advice you might offer.


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