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TOPIC: Meeting Preference: Couple To Couple or at a Club-Meet N Greet-Party
Created by: PittCouple412
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"However, usually after attending a m/g party, we get a liot of messages here from people who met us at the party. Then we can set up a dinner date or meet for a few drinks. We've already met them, and now can check out their profile, so usually we have a idea of how they are before sitting down with them for more isolated conversation.

Same here. You already know if there is a physical attraction so no unpleasant surprises from less-than-representative photos. You just have to read the profile to see if they may be 'play' compatible.

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We don't really have a choice where we live. There are no clubs and very, very few M&G's. So far, there have only been 2 M&G since we started in the LS and they were very poorly attended. Total bummer.

So, we are left with only one-on-one meetings with couples. Not ideal, but it's what we have to work with. Most of the time, the meetings are a bust and hubby and I end up going out afterwards. LOL

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We like both, and find that one really helps out with the other.

At the m/g parties, we meet alot more people, but we end up having a difficult time disengaging ourselves from full swap couples in order to spend more time with bifem couples. So, we usually just end up on the dance floor more.

However, usually after attending a m/g party, we get a liot of messages here from people who met us at the party. Then we can set up a dinner date or meet for a few drinks. We've already met them, and now can check out their profile, so usually we have a idea of how they are before sitting down with them for more isolated conversation.

Anyways, it seems to be working for us.

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we prefer couple to couple. if we meet and we don't click for whatever reason it's not a waste to us because we already know you cant click with everyone and we are not just looking to jump in the bed.

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We find that the meet and greets are an excellent way to meet people. It's fairly easy to weed out the pretenders, and you have the opportunity to meet many couples in the same setting. It's difficult to land a 2-on-2 date, even more difficult to land one where everyone cliques. Even if you go to a club and don't play, you can exchange SLS usernames and have a better chance of private follow-up dates. We have never attended a club and not found people to play with that night.

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We are somewhat of a "newbie couple" as we did some swapping a while ago, but family priorities took over and now we are back and loving our new freedom with each other. We decided to join the SLS site to try and connect with the right people to enjoy together, but we too have found issues with actually making the connections. We are open to M&G or house parties, but would really like to connect with others one on one, to hopefully make new friends if the chemistry is not sexually right, or to have things go sensual if the chemistry is right. We are very open minded and flexible but we just need to find that right avenue. If anyone is local to us, we are looking to connect with clean, fun, couples who are interested in a friendship with sexual pleasure sharing.

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We've been in the lifestyle about a year now and have used both methods for meeting new couples. You have to remember that a few couples are against meeting at a meet and greet for privacy reasons; others aren't crazy about the "cliqueness" of some of those get-togethers. We don't really have enough experience yet to be considered a part of any clique, anyway, and most of our meetings have been one-on-one after a few emails and phone conversations.

We don't go to M&Gs expecting to find another couple and play the same evening, but if it should happen and the chemistry is there, that's fine. We generally shoot for meeting couples and perhaps arranging another meeting, again if all seem to be on the same page. Bottom line is that there probably isn't any difference in the way people meet; it's up to the couples involved.

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I have been meeting at events and clubs only for years. I have a great large group of like minded and happy friends. The one on one meetings got tiresome and boring, at a club when the attraction isnt there you have not wasted getting dressed, putting your best foot foreward.

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Most meet & greets are a waste of time with the cliques you find there and the people who are always looking to trade up to a hotter couple while they are talking with another couple. Also, meet & greets are full of pseudo-swingers who never actually play with anyone.

We always like to meet couples one on one and if a couple looks like their pics when we meet them and has the same personality we saw when we chatted (as we do) then we are willing to 'invest' the time in them when we meet them to see if we click enough to play.

In addition, we try to 'pre-qualify' couples to see who is really full swap before we agree to meet them and doing that at a meet & greet usually takes a lot of time and usually results in our going home alone.

Bottom line, if you are wannabes or pretend swingers meet & greets are the way to go. If you are serious and really do want to play with people get to know a couple through chat etc and then meet them one on one.

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As you can guess there comes a point where one hates to view things relative to their age, but there aint a damn thing we can do about it except quit and that just is not going to happen. We pretty much limit our outreach to those over 50. Sometimes we get surprised but 50+ nonetheless. Clubs seem to be filled with younger couples and don't often allow extra males. Couple to Couple from the SLS site quite often turns out to be a miss, as many have experienced. House parties (not hotel) of 50-60 people, that allow a one to ten ratio of extra males is by far the easiest for us. However the house parties are hard to find. Though there is a huge amount of vetting, us to the single male has yielded some delightful results

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