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TOPIC: Is the male's appearance the major factor
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If the male's appearance is such a big factor, then why is it that with almost all the couples who contact us, telling us how great of a match we are and how much they "BOTH" what to meet us, the wife has never seen our profile?
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"But yes, it's tough finding a couple that BOTH of us like. That's when solo play comes in! LOL "
it is tough! We tend to do more MFM and FMF then actual couple swap. |
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The *major* factor? No, not the major factor, but it is an important factor. Hubby and I can be somewhat picky. He likes/doesn't like certain women and I like/don't like certain men.
But yes, it's tough finding a couple that BOTH of us like. That's when solo play comes in! LOL |
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Wailuku HI |
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Have to say that looks will get you "in the door" but personality gets you "in the bed".
Part of playing is about the fantasy. At least show you take care of yourself and your health. mrs svc |
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Las Vegas NV |
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I do believe that the man being attractive plays a big part for "selective" couples.
Thus far, we find it hard to find couples were both parties are attractive and sane. |
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i thought it was for my wife until at an event we met a couple that initially my wife wasn't attracted to the male. after the couple chatted with us and the male half made my wife laugh and showed he had personality, she didn't mind.
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Bronx NY |
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Male is absolutely critical for my wife.
She needs to be attracted to him physically and he needs to have personality* and genuine enthusiasm or she won't want to play with him again. *(Meaning: energy, creativity, and assertiveness - she gets pretty disappointed when the guy is "Just happy to be here" and doesn't have any ideas of his own or anything to add other then a dick to the equation). |
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Saint Paul MN |
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I've never been one to beg but if I ask nicely?
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Youngstown OH |
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The man will find 10 women he would play with for every 1 man the woman finds play worthy. Of course I'm a focus group of 1, anybody beg to differ?
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Virginia Beach VA |
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"All things being equal, the number should come out about the same. In reality you will find that it's at least 10 to 1 in favor of the ladies (on a good night). "
Losamantes -- What is 10:1 in favor of the ladies? |
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