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Welcome to the fora youngfun.

Most of us aren't the chiseled ab type, just like most women aren't the perfect perky tits type, but nobody would argue that their pics are best "left out". Whether you think your pics do you justice or not, trust me, the ladies want to see you. For a large number of couples, your lack of presence in the pics will automatically disqualify you from consideration, so I urge you to "hang in there" and stay in your pics.

Also trust me on this - dressing well absolutely gets attention from the ladies. I'm by far most comfortable in jeans and a decent shirt myself, but I promise you if you dress it up a little it's worth it. It took me a long time to come to grips with this, and I really don't like shopping for nice clothes. But dammit when women approach you and specifically say "I love your shirt" you'll agree with me that it's totally worth it.

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For us the male half's apperance is important.The Mrs. has the final say in whom we meet. If she's on the fence about the male half, she'll meet but want to keep the first meeting social without any expectation of play. Sometimes pics don't do people justice. Personality also plays an important part it may sometimes tip the scale in favor of future fun.

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In my oppinion, yes the male half is important and yes, we have passed over couples because of the mans apperance. But, on the same note being both young and in fairly good shape, it is still a daunting task to take pictures. seeing as i am not the tall, dark, chizzled abb'stype, my photo's dont do me justice ( again in my own oppinion ) and i feel that maybe they are better left out, although they have not been. Even better yet, at social events what is the oppropiate attire? Classic, classy and styled, or laid back, clean and casual? What im truely getting at is what is the male equivalent of what all of you beautiful ladies do? Persoanly i tend to lean more twords laid back, clean and casul.I feel at my best when im wearing a collared shirt, a clean pair of jeans and something other than my work boots.

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Mrs. Soul and I have a similar problem. She is a drop dead, gorgeous woman and she has me in tow. A lot of times I think that our rule of playing together keeps her from playing with who she wants if the female half is not attracted to me. When we sit down to look at profiles, she looks at the guy first, despite the fact that she loves playing with the girls more because when things get going, she knows she'll be engaging with him as well. Even if the lady is smokin, if she doesn't feel attracted to the guy's pics, it's a no go.

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We've always wondered about people's personal perceptions. The photo's are the easy part. It never ceases to amaze us what many people consider to be "in shape." Not a wonder the clothing companies are changing their sizes to stroke the egos of their customers. Mr Tenacious sympathizes with Mrs Tenacious. The ladies seem to put quite a bit into their appearance and so many men show up to events with jeans and a T-shirt (never mind the gut). We both find personality trumps all. But you would think more effort would be put into appearance given the games we play. She knows there is little a guy can do about hair loss. But is it really that hard to get in a little exercise and eat just a little less? Mrs Tenacious works harder than most men on here and still makes a little time to exercise while watching her diet. Thank heaven we love to be around interesting people!

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We've always wondered about people's personal perceptions. The photo's are the easy part. It never ceases to amaze us what many people consider to be "in shape." Not a wonder the clothing companies are changing their sizes to stroke the egos of their customers. Mr Tenacious sympathizes with Mrs Tenacious. The ladies seem to put quite a bit into their appearance and so many men show up to events with jeans and a T-shirt (never mind the gut). We both find personality trumps all. But you would think more effort would be put into appearance given the games we play. She knows there is little a guy can do about hair loss. But is it really that hard to get in a little exercise and eat just a little less? Mrs Tenacious works harder than most men on here and still makes a little time to exercise while watching her diet. Thank heaven we love to be around interesting people!

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Mrs. VA once took 45 photos of me, and we kept none of them.

She'll usually get through 3-4 tries, then tell me "I can't work this camera".

Why the Atlanta airport, hmm?

I don't have "no photos"! I appear in 10 of our public pics!

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Mr.VA next time a business trip puts you through the Atlanta airport, you should get some of the locals to come over and snap a pic..they might be decent photographers;)

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Great. Now everyone is Ansel Adams, critiquing pics...lol

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We live in a digital age, we can shoot 10,000 photos in no time, and if we are able to pick 10 out of that group, we've done well.

There are zero excuses for not having photos. VA, surely you own a digital camera, surely you can shoot heaven knows how many photos and pick one or two, no?

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