I am at the moment playing with an open pass. I't is stated on our / now my profile that anyone can phone verify or cam verify if interested.

Soon as she stoped the play half of meeting couples it seems the world has closed up completly.

How is a guy such as I to show they are legit?

Note: we meet couples as a couple but play has come to include only I and the other couple at seperate met ups.

we don't play with singles anymore.
But believe it or not, in the past we found out that playing with single males has less drama than playing with single females almost every time.

I agree rock, and not just because I am a SM. As I have mentioned before, I started here as part of a couple and now find it MUCH easier and way less drama to be single in the LS.

Well we have found that sm's are Often less drama free then the vast majority of cples. Yes We blocked them if we are interested we seek them out. we have never had availability issues with them. I mean seriously do you really really care if they are married as long as they are reliable. We think in swinging you will encounter a fair share of cples where they are 1 not married to eachother 2 they are legit bf gf but don't live together 3 part of a cple but he swings solo with her ernest premission Maybe we are different but we are not here to "marry" our date. you have to go with what works for you but to us worrying about someones martial status seems rather high schoolish in the world of swing. we are sure some of you will agree others will not.

I don't think it's fair to label all single men as cheaters. I started on this site with my gf at the time and after we split kept the account. I took it a step further and bought a lifetime membership.

For hosting - as a single guy I can't afford to have my own place so I have roommates. Not exactly the best hosting environment!

I'm sure there are a LOT of single guys here posing as couples or females but not all. Just as there are a LOT of couples where the husband posted the profile hoping to get the wife involved.

As in anything, there are good and bad and while the quantity of bad seems to be a deterrent, keep looking for QUALITY and I think you will find what you are looking for.

Good luck!

Seems only single guys responded so here's another couples perspective.

You're right.

Lots of fakes, we even have single guys contact us posing as unicorns. The guys who responded may be legit and I'm not saying they aren't but there are a lot of guys cheating on their wives and posing as couples and females

Well if you don't mind traveling, I would be happy to host an "August Adventure".

:-)

Sounds like you have had some bad experiences and perhaps your theory that single males in the lifestyle are actually cheating, but in my case I have found that I really enjoy 3 and 4 ways and that is hard to find in the Vanilla world, so that is why I swing.

If I am dating someone then I either stop meeting couples all together or, if my GF at the time is into it, swing with her.

Jandact, the House of Fun in New Orleans has hosted several couples. Just sayin.