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TOPIC: I would like to find out how to meet real legit ppl here
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Hi Freaky, (the original post has been deleted, this isn't a hijack) Couples are blocked from viewing your profile, so you're invisible to most SLS users. We realize the need for privacy, especially in a small town, but if you open a business with an unlisted number, don't expect many customers. If you're concerned about privacy, change your location to the closest large town. If you're just looking for single males or females, there are probably better sites out there.

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Although we've been in the lifestyle for a while, we've not met too many ppl. Being from a small town makes it alot harder.

Pryor OK
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We think the best way to find and meet people is to get out from behind the computer and go where you know swingers are (clubs, parties etc...)

Newborn GA
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Lets start a group right now that consists of real swinging couples that meet. All we need is a consistent date, time, & location.

Newburgh NY
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I agree with the above poster! While we have met a few people directly from this website, its been an even better tool in alerting us to events, where we have met dozens of fantastic friends!

Baltimore MD
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My suggestion is join 2 or 3 local groups and attend each one of their parties you are guaranteed to meet REAL people. Then before you know it your group of friends from this site will be as large or small as YOU feel comfortable with. That has been what has worked for us at least, we agree with some people that M&G's are a little bit harder to meet new people.

Easton PA
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Look for couples with what we call 'real' certs. That is certs that say that something more than a nice chat with a couple happened. M&Gs around here are a total waste of time and money. Nothing but cliques and wannabe pretend swingers. Have not met anyone worth anything at any of them.

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with so many hit and misses on here, we think its better to get out to the m&g. sls is good for upcoming events, but to just use it to meet other couple is sometimes painstaking and time consuming. only bad part of m&g, parties, etc. is that the cost to attend them can add up real quick.

Newburgh NY
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There are definitely 'legit' people here, as well as the inevitable fakes/flakes. We've been here for a good while and have met some very nice people. We believe that good things take time, but bad things happen quickly. Have you looked at hooking up with one or more groups in your area? Are you getting out and getting some face-time with people at M&G's & other events?


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Only been here for 6 or 7 weeks, but we are learning fast. We learned quickly there are phonies on here. So we have a few guidelines to try and weed them out. 1. No photos Vanilla or blurred faces are OK for public photos, but no pictures at all red flag, 2. No private photos You want to meet us but don't trust us enough to show how your bodies look even without faces. But faces are better. 3. How can we meet you if we don't know what your face looks like. Doubt you will be naked in a restaurant, bar, or wherever we meet. 4. Don't be judgmental. We don't know you. If we should say something that offends you, remember, we are just learning your likes and dislikes, give us a break, we do not intend to piss you off. 5. We are not all in the same socioeconomic group. We may not be able to spring for a room, or go to an expensive restaurant. Besides we are here for friends and sexual excitement, not to be impressed with your credit score. 6. If someone takes the time to write, give them the courtesy of a reply, even a short no thanks is OK 7. Some people want to know more about the people they are about to become intimate with. So it may take several emails before they become comfortable and want to meet. they also may not want to become intimate on the first meeting. Think of high school, if someone is too easy then probably not the one you want to get serious with. 8. Respect the other couples limits. No means No, Not now, means Not now. 9. The best way to end an evening early is to try and talk or cajole someone to do something thy are unwilling, or uncomfortable doing. Make them uncomfortable and the evening will immediately be over. 10. Be honest in your profile, if you weigh 400# you are not slightly overweight you are morbidly obese.

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