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Created by: wrgunny Original Starting post for this thread:
One thing that i have noticed here is that people can be very judgemental. at times they can be downright mean! Case in Point. I will play with the female first and then the husband can come to play 2nd... LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL Single or Cheating man's profiles are sooooo comical and easy to pic out!!! LOLOLOLOLOL But yours is an ALL TIME CLASSIC... you should win an award for all that BS in the profile. We received the response above just today. The person couldnt be any more rude. I dont know what to do any more! I am alot more into the lifestyle than my wife. she is still very leary of it. Mainly because people are so mean and judgemental, or the guys are too aggressive. In the last week alone we have been met with negative email and all we want to do is meet and make new friends. I am leaving on Deployment in January and it is important to me that my wife make friends and build a social circle that will help her deal and cope with my being gone for a year. the sexual side of it is just a bonus to us. As for me? I am the typical horny guy, what can i say, but this whole experience so far hasnt been very good. We have pulle dour original profile and replaced it with a plea for help. So where do we go from here?

Created by: wrgunny
Original Starting post for this thread:

One thing that i have noticed here is that people can be very judgemental. at times they can be downright mean! 

Case in Point.

I will play with the female first and then the 
husband can come to play 2nd... LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL


Single or Cheating man's profiles are sooooo comical 
and easy to pic out!!! LOLOLOLOLOL

But yours is an ALL TIME CLASSIC...

you should win an award for all that BS in the 
profile.

We received the response above just today. The person couldnt be any more rude. I dont know what to do any more! I am alot more into the lifestyle than my wife. she is still very leary of it. Mainly because people are so mean and judgemental, or the guys are too aggressive.  In the last week alone we have been met with negative email and all we want to do is meet and make new friends.

I am leaving on Deployment in January and it is important to me that my wife make friends and build a social circle that will help her deal and cope with my being gone for a year. the sexual side of it is just a bonus to us. As for me? I am the typical horny guy, what can i say, but this whole experience so far hasnt been very good. We have pulle dour original profile and replaced it with a plea for help.

So where do we go from here?

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Sheboygan Falls WI			Username hidden (6956 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree with KD. Though I'm slightly taller than you are, I don't have a problem with men who are not tall - and even feel uncomfortable around men who tower over me. There are certain to be other women like us, so it isn't a height problem. The only public picture you have of yourself on your profile shows a handsome guy who looks grim. No sparkle in the eye, no smile, no playful come hither look. Some people don't have good teeth and avoid a full smile, but look pretty good with a closed-mouth smile. Would you consider posting some like that? When you are at clubs, do you smile much? Do you do things to indicate you are actually having fun, like dancing, flirting, playing any organized 'games'? I get a lot more positive attention at parties if I make a point of smiling more, even if I don't exactly feel like smiling at the time. Mrs. Scandle
Sheboygan Falls WI			Username hidden (6956 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Welcome to the forums titekittykat! hmmm... I find your problem odd and think you're handsome as hell! ;) I also never really saw much against 5'8" men, which is not tall, but not 'too' short either. Tell me, do you smile much? What is your personality like when you are in a club? Your problem is surprising to me....
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"I think we are so fortunate because this area has a plethora of horny people." "What is it about PA? Incredible.. " ----------------------- They do have a city called Intercourse....lol Look it up!
Amherst OH			Username hidden (2271 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Its a want ad site, if you dont like what you see or want move on, I have gotten used to being turned down:) its all fun
Harrisonburg VA			Username hidden (150 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	What is it about PA? Incredible.. I know, making us rethink the thought of moving Northwest Playtime, if we make it up your way, we plan on giving you a shout...been perving your profile for a while now ;-) Fun...funny as always
Copperas Cove TX			Username hidden (21 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	congrats mike thats the first profile i ever saw without a single capitalized letter or punctuation mark the literate chicks must be all over u oh and how many times in one profile can u say how boring ur life is that must be a real attraction too
San Quentin CA			Username hidden (8604 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I don't see what the problem is. If someone is rude, write them off and move in. There are rude people all over the place. The mall, the park, your workplace, the grocery store, the gas station...not just here. You can't let rude peopel get you down. Truth be told, they are probably that way due to some bad run-ins or negative experiences of their own. I would just keep trying. Don't worry about those people. Put your best possible profile out there. Don't lie or over embellish, just put your best, honest, promotion of yourself out there. Read lots of profile within your range (mileage wise) and reach out or send messages to those out there. We've exchanged messages with lots of people/couples. Some positive, some negative. But, we've managed to meet several really cool people. Many that we now call friends. We haven't even played with a few of them yet (even though we plan to). It can work. You've just got to have to right mindset to handle the lifestyle. Remember, everyone has different preferences and everyone is looking for different things at different paces.
Waco TX			Username hidden (44 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	opps I overlooked at the top of your profile that your only looking for single women so that narrows your field even more. While some of the single ladies on here are interested in single men many of them want to join couples instead of single men. PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13975 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	so Mike you give up already after only 2 months on site? You have no public pics and your profile says "I couldn't be bothered to make this sound interesting". Yeah I'm sure couples/single ladies will be beating down your door with that. How about the emails you send? are you sending ones that show you read a couple/single ladies profile? Or since you didn't care about filling yours out you figure the rest of us don't care either? There are opportunities for single males in the lifestyle. You have to put some effort into it though and not just expect everyone to come beating down your door. I would start with a better profile and some public pics even if they don't show your face. oh and welcome to the forums. Pirate Girl,
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