How to find a single male: Swingers Discussion 157778

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TOPIC: How to find a single male

Created by: brcouple4u Original Starting post for this thread:
We have been searching for an acceptable single male. Does anyone have any recommendations on how to pick one up in a public setting? What is the best way to approach one in a classy, sophisticated manner?

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User Details are only visible to members.	I must say this is the first topic I actually find interesting. First off for the people that say most men are fakes on here, that may be a true statement, however so far I have only met 1 real couple on here. Many couples on here looking for single males are actually gay men (atleast in my area I unfortunately found out). But anyway back to the original post. My first time with a couple was actually set up in a scenario like your describing. I with out with a few friends having some drinks at a nice bar/restaurant and I just notice an older lady (turns out she was 42) looking over and just smiling at me. So of course I smiled back and kept looking over to see her still looking at me. After some time my friends left, and I stayed behind to go talk to this lady who was apparently sitting with her husband. At first I think both her and I were nervous but we started out with just some friendly talk and once she started putting her hand on my leg when laughing is when I knew where this was going. The husband didn't say a word for almost a half hour when finally the lady said 'Dan, this is my husband, he loves when I flirt with young good looking men'. Now that the ice was totally broken, we got down to business and they took me home with them. This was my best experience so far, especially because I often go back to that bar just to hope they will be back. Hope this helps!
East Aurora NY			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I would look to going to some Meet & Greets in your area. Join some of the groups in your ares here on SLS that allow single males. I hardly ever email couples I wait for them to cintact me, post more in the forums and post positivly, you will get noticed. Show some pictures of you in a fun atmosphere. You may be a professional, but pictures in a natural enviornment having fun is better. Cruiseing bars is not your answer, try some of the swing clubs in PA and MD that allow singles, like the Cottege in PA not really that far. It's not easy for us singles, but it can be done and it takes patience for the right guy
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9688 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	First I would like to say that nice to see there are couples out there looking for a single male. Because I sure can't find any. No answers when you email them, tried strip clubs, local taverns, etc.. And if a couple does respond back with some interest as soon as you try for a public meet you never hear from them again. Yes there are a lot of fakes and attached males out there claiming to be single. But I am not one of them. I am a nice respectful, divorced male and you would think I had the plague. And I know how you couples feel when you show up for a meet and no one shows. Just rude and messing with your time which I am sure you had to plan. Have had a few couples as friends through the years but has been a long time. Be nice to find a couple again.
Millersville MD			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Single males, where to start. We have thus far sought out single males. We have learned the best way for us to weed out the unfavorable types is to simply meet at a restaurant and visit over dinner. His actions, attitudes, and desires generally come through. When it is time to decide if you want the evening to end or progress we simply say something to the effect well, keep in touch, or hey what are you doing the rest of the evening. It is a safe way to bow out of further interaction with a jerk, or a newly discovered married cheater.
Dumas TX			Username hidden (233 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	MVPP I agree with you...I have never been groped by a single male...but I've had some wtf experiences with husbands. Single men tend to be hypersensitive to even possibly making anyone upset because they will get booted like that...where husbands sometimes forget that.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23645 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Excellent post MVP
Emeryville CA			Username hidden (12137 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I really have to get a firmer grip on how other parts of the USA club and party. To the OP .On Friday night we have a single male night at our club. Granted there's going few bad apples in the bunch but for the most part they are more respectful than some of the males that are coupled up.Have you done a single male search in your area yet? I also go by the certs they have received and who gave them those certs? I have even written those people and made an inquiry. Yeah it's a little bit of home work but in the long run if you find a nice single guy it makes all that hard work worth it .
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (92 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I can do that ;-)
Visalia CA			Username hidden (4125 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ah, Mario... how can I be fired from being a Mom? ;-) Sometimes I WANT to be... please? (hee-hee) And if/when I make it to the East coast... I will be letting you know :-D
Visalia CA			Username hidden (4125 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks for the positive words! :-)
Emeryville CA			Username hidden (12137 post)

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TOPIC: How to find a single male