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we've tried something close to that. trying to pick up single guys. they seem to get territorial. we haven't had a great amount of luck in getting the person to go to the next step without them wanting to set up a date with my partner. we're hoping this site will help with that...but then again...that's not the issue. i wonder if we are trying to corrupt the people that don't want to be corrupted. does that make sense? i mean...there i s a reason there are swinger clubs, right? i don't know. i'd LOVE to be proven wrong. i'd like to pick up more vanilla people in the vanilla club. but i also wonder if this isn't WHY there are vanilla clubs.

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I'd think the wristbands would only work for their obvious colors in open swinger venues. People have those wrist bands on all the time for whatever reason, and nobody gives them a close look anymore.

Has anyone else tried outright to pick up strangers?

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Hey Doc_n_Janine,

Or anyone else reading this topic. check out 7946437 dot com... Its a Swinger Wristband idea. Buy the color of swinger type you are. Maybe we can get more people wearing them? Hell we are going to give it a try...

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Doc_n_Janine, GREAT attempt... As for us we are to shy to come up and just ask like you did. We have surfed around the casinos, wineries, ect and tried the normal flirting(winks, eye contact)... 100% of the time only one half of the couple, smiles or makes any attempt to Flirt back... Maybe one of these times, we might run into another couple like your self..

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Curious if anyone has had any experience just asking strangers out of the clear blue sky...

After being led on to think we were meeting a couple at a casino hotel this weekend, we were left high and dry with no explanation as to why.

Of course, we wanted to do a bit of playing, so we cruised the playing floor looking for potential candidates. Oddly enough, there was a shortage of people our age that weren't cracked out looking and we weren't able to find any couples to ask.

We did find an attractive cocktail waitress with a nice personality and I asked if she could help settle a bet between my wife and I; if the employees were allowed to fraternize with the guests? She said they were as long as they were off the clock and out of uniform, so I asked her if she would mind fraternizing with my me and my wife when her shift ended. She wasn't too clear on what I meant, but was interested, so I simply said we would like to know if she would enjoy watching us have sex. She was visably shocked, although not offended; it was just the first time anyone had ever asked her such a thing. She told us both she was very flattered and would be interested if she didn't have to take someone home after work.

Further conversation revealed this "someone" to be her boyfriend who also worked at the casino, and we got the feeling she was into the idea but knew he wouldn't be. Naturally, we invited him along to join the party and she said she'd ask him. At any rate, despite seemingly making a purposeful attempt at parading her ass and well displayed tits for us to salivate over for another hour on the gaming floor, she never showed up with her boyfriend after her shift was done.

On the way to the room, we saw an attractive young lass with big tits texting on a cell phone, looking upset. We stopped to ask what was wrong and she told us she had been stood up by a friend she was supposed to meet. I informed her we too had been stood up by a couple we were wanting to have some "adult fun" with and asked if she would be interested in watching my wife and I have sex. Again, she was a bit shocked, but told us both we made her feel great for asking her. She declined the offer and we thanked her for being so nice about it, as the potential for someone to freak out at such a request was obviously substantial.

We knew the likelyhood of success in such a place was low, but you miss all the shots you don't take and we really wanted to give someone a show. We were pretty surprised at how easy the ladies took it, as we half expected them to hail down a cop wanting us to be sued with sexual harrassment.

Of course, I was probably a bit too forward just coming out with it like I did with both of them, but we kept wondering if it was just the location and circumstances and if our approach would work in a more typical "swinger" venue.

What's your take? Have any of you done something like this? What was the result?

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