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Curious if anyone has had any experience just asking strangers out of the clear blue sky... After being led on to think we were meeting a couple at a casino hotel this weekend, we were left high and dry with no explanation as to why. Of course, we wanted to do a bit of playing, so we cruised the playing floor looking for potential candidates. Oddly enough, there was a shortage of people our age that weren't cracked out looking and we weren't able to find any couples to ask. We did find an attractive cocktail waitress with a nice personality and I asked if she could help settle a bet between my wife and I; if the employees were allowed to fraternize with the guests? She said they were as long as they were off the clock and out of uniform, so I asked her if she would mind fraternizing with my me and my wife when her shift ended. She wasn't too clear on what I meant, but was interested, so I simply said we would like to know if she would enjoy watching us have sex. She was visably shocked, although not offended; it was just the first time anyone had ever asked her such a thing. She told us both she was very flattered and would be interested if she didn't have to take someone home after work. Further conversation revealed this "someone" to be her boyfriend who also worked at the casino, and we got the feeling she was into the idea but knew he wouldn't be. Naturally, we invited him along to join the party and she said she'd ask him. At any rate, despite seemingly making a purposeful attempt at parading her ass and well displayed tits for us to salivate over for another hour on the gaming floor, she never showed up with her boyfriend after her shift was done. On the way to the room, we saw an attractive young lass with big tits texting on a cell phone, looking upset. We stopped to ask what was wrong and she told us she had been stood up by a friend she was supposed to meet. I informed her we too had been stood up by a couple we were wanting to have some "adult fun" with and asked if she would be interested in watching my wife and I have sex. Again, she was a bit shocked, but told us both we made her feel great for asking her. She declined the offer and we thanked her for being so nice about it, as the potential for someone to freak out at such a request was obviously substantial. We knew the likelyhood of success in such a place was low, but you miss all the shots you don't take and we really wanted to give someone a show. We were pretty surprised at how easy the ladies took it, as we half expected them to hail down a cop wanting us to be sued with sexual harrassment. Of course, I was probably a bit too forward just coming out with it like I did with both of them, but we kept wondering if it was just the location and circumstances and if our approach would work in a more typical "swinger" venue. What's your take? Have any of you done something like this? What was the result?

Created by: Doc_n_Janine
Original Starting post for this thread:

Curious if anyone has had any experience just asking strangers out of the clear blue sky...

After being led on to think we were meeting a couple at a casino hotel this weekend, we were left high and dry with no explanation as to why.

Of course, we wanted to do a bit of playing, so we cruised the playing floor looking for potential candidates.  Oddly enough, there was a shortage of people our age that weren't cracked out looking and we weren't able to find any couples to ask.

We did find an attractive cocktail waitress with a nice personality and I asked if she could help settle a bet between my wife and I; if the employees were allowed to fraternize with the guests?  She said they were as long as they were off the clock and out of uniform, so I asked her if she would mind fraternizing with my me and my wife when her shift ended.  She wasn't too clear on what I meant, but was interested, so I simply said we would like to know if she would enjoy watching us have sex.  She was visably shocked, although not offended; it was just the first time anyone had ever asked her such a thing.  She told us both she was very flattered and would be interested if she didn't have to take someone home after work.

Further conversation revealed this "someone" to be her boyfriend who also worked at the casino, and we got the feeling she was into the idea but knew he wouldn't be.  Naturally, we invited him along to join the party and she said she'd ask him.  At any rate, despite seemingly making a purposeful attempt at parading her ass and well displayed tits for us to salivate over for another hour on the gaming floor, she never showed up with her boyfriend after her shift was done.

On the way to the room, we saw an attractive young lass with big tits texting on a cell phone, looking upset.  We stopped to ask what was wrong and she told us she had been stood up by a friend she was supposed to meet.  I informed her we too had been stood up by a couple we were wanting to have some "adult fun" with and asked if she would be interested in watching my wife and I have sex.  Again, she was a bit shocked, but told us both we made her feel great for asking her.  She declined the offer and we thanked her for being so nice about it, as the potential for someone to freak out at such a request was obviously substantial.

We knew the likelyhood of success in such a place was low, but you miss all the shots you don't take and we really wanted to give someone a show.  We were pretty surprised at how easy the ladies took it, as we half expected them to hail down a cop wanting us to be sued with sexual harrassment.

Of course, I was probably a bit too forward just coming out with it like I did with both of them, but we kept wondering if it was just the location and circumstances and if our approach would work in a more typical "swinger" venue.

What's your take?  Have any of you done something like this?  What was the result?

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User Details are only visible to members.	we always look out for any possibilities.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I have a SLS magnetic sticker for the back tailgate f my truck, I travel all over the east coast, will let everyone know how many people smile or wave or maybe even say hi:) Bruce
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User Details are only visible to members.	my former bi-g/f and i used to do it in vanilla situations frequently! our success rate was nearly 75% with her looks and my wit, we couldn't be beat! I am seeking a replacement partner now!
Springfield MO			Username hidden (8 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I just this past saturday night hit on the waiter at the hard rock cafe. Hubby was there, the guy still seemed interested, I ended up with his cell phone number ;)
Louisville KY			Username hidden (6622 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Before marriage I hit on any woman I was attracted to. I will only live once and when the opportunity is lost, it is lost. Some success, lots of failures. I would ask to dance or buy a drink to start the contact. Intro's and talk. Simple questions and feel out the woman. In my case. Now that we swing as a couple the guys drool over my babe and it has become easier. The line "your wife is hot," is real old and gets from me "you should see her naked!" "Wheres your date, lets talk, shall we." This eliminates the horny hound dog male searching for a one niter with nothing to offer me. A kind term we have developed is when we see the interest is to to say " we would share with you." Nothing works all the time. But I have not tried everything all the time.
Tallahassee FL			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We were hanging out at SKOB one evening and there was a vanilla couple sitting at the table next to us that we started chatting with and eventually invited them to sit with us. When the place was closing, we asked them back to our place for a beer or something. I just took off my clothes when we got home and things went from there. Ended up to be alot of something! :) They HAD been at SKOB sitting at the table discussing a divorce and now they had to go home and re-think things!
Cape Coral FL			Username hidden (126 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	No, I dont approach anyone in vanilla settings, thankfully I have not been approached either.
Houston TX			Username hidden (1513 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am always looking for the signs, and would like it if someone just asked me to join them. Only once before has a woman reach under the bar and grabbed my cock, we had the best sweaty sex ever. I think a smile is always a good sign and dont be afraid to talk. Bruce
Lockport NY			Username hidden (140 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Forgot to add, it would be a real treat to meet a couple this way too. Just hasn't ever happened yet.
Durham NC			Username hidden (43 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This is usually how we meet single females. While out and about at clubs or bars the mrs usually will just start chatting up someone she is interested in and it goes from there. We have yet to met a single female from this site ( we don't even attempt any more to be honest). Plus its a lot more fun and a lot hotter watching it all take place that way (IMHO). However, for single guys and couples this site is great.
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