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TOPIC: Have any of you just asked complete strangers in non-swinger venues
Created by: Doc_n_Janine
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Curious if anyone has had any experience just asking strangers out of the clear blue sky...

After being led on to think we were meeting a couple at a casino hotel this weekend, we were left high and dry with no explanation as to why.

Of course, we wanted to do a bit of playing, so we cruised the playing floor looking for potential candidates. Oddly enough, there was a shortage of people our age that weren't cracked out looking and we weren't able to find any couples to ask.

We did find an attractive cocktail waitress with a nice personality and I asked if she could help settle a bet between my wife and I; if the employees were allowed to fraternize with the guests? She said they were as long as they were off the clock and out of uniform, so I asked her if she would mind fraternizing with my me and my wife when her shift ended. She wasn't too clear on what I meant, but was interested, so I simply said we would like to know if she would enjoy watching us have sex. She was visably shocked, although not offended; it was just the first time anyone had ever asked her such a thing. She told us both she was very flattered and would be interested if she didn't have to take someone home after work.

Further conversation revealed this "someone" to be her boyfriend who also worked at the casino, and we got the feeling she was into the idea but knew he wouldn't be. Naturally, we invited him along to join the party and she said she'd ask him. At any rate, despite seemingly making a purposeful attempt at parading her ass and well displayed tits for us to salivate over for another hour on the gaming floor, she never showed up with her boyfriend after her shift was done.

On the way to the room, we saw an attractive young lass with big tits texting on a cell phone, looking upset. We stopped to ask what was wrong and she told us she had been stood up by a friend she was supposed to meet. I informed her we too had been stood up by a couple we were wanting to have some "adult fun" with and asked if she would be interested in watching my wife and I have sex. Again, she was a bit shocked, but told us both we made her feel great for asking her. She declined the offer and we thanked her for being so nice about it, as the potential for someone to freak out at such a request was obviously substantial.

We knew the likelyhood of success in such a place was low, but you miss all the shots you don't take and we really wanted to give someone a show. We were pretty surprised at how easy the ladies took it, as we half expected them to hail down a cop wanting us to be sued with sexual harrassment.

Of course, I was probably a bit too forward just coming out with it like I did with both of them, but we kept wondering if it was just the location and circumstances and if our approach would work in a more typical "swinger" venue.

What's your take? Have any of you done something like this? What was the result?

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we always look out for any possibilities.

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my former bi-g/f and i used to do it in vanilla situations frequently! our success rate was nearly 75% with her looks and my wit, we couldn't be beat! I am seeking a replacement partner now!

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I just this past saturday night hit on the waiter at the hard rock cafe. Hubby was there, the guy still seemed interested, I ended up with his cell phone number ;)

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Before marriage I hit on any woman I was attracted to. I will only live once and when the opportunity is lost, it is lost. Some success, lots of failures. I would ask to dance or buy a drink to start the contact. Intro's and talk. Simple questions and feel out the woman. In my case. Now that we swing as a couple the guys drool over my babe and it has become easier. The line "your wife is hot," is real old and gets from me "you should see her naked!" "Wheres your date, lets talk, shall we." This eliminates the horny hound dog male searching for a one niter with nothing to offer me. A kind term we have developed is when we see the interest is to to say " we would share with you." Nothing works all the time. But I have not tried everything all the time.

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We were hanging out at SKOB one evening and there was a vanilla couple sitting at the table next to us that we started chatting with and eventually invited them to sit with us. When the place was closing, we asked them back to our place for a beer or something. I just took off my clothes when we got home and things went from there. Ended up to be alot of something! :)

They HAD been at SKOB sitting at the table discussing a divorce and now they had to go home and re-think things!

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No, I dont approach anyone in vanilla settings, thankfully I have not been approached either.

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Ahh I see what you mean (about your wife being shy.) I think a lot of our success has to do with the fact that I am the one initiating. Much less threatening that way. We meet most of our single female playmates that way. We've only met two single females from this site. I should clarify by saying that 60% success rate is getting her/him to go out for drinks or coffee... it doesn't always lead to a guaranteed playtime. But we have fun regardless.

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"maybe you just take a guy's cock out and suck it as you give them the proposition?"

Nah. Not many men would fall for that old trick . . .

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I'm sure if the lady is doing the asking the chance of success increases. In our case, my wife would hover nearby and make eye contact... she's too shy to ask strangers like that.

60-70 percent success rate? That's amazing. You must talk a good game, or you maybe you just take a guy's cock out and suck it as you give them the proposition?

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We do this all the time... the last time was a single girl at Lowes. I (the wife) usually do the approaching. I'd say it works out for us 60 or 70 percent of the time. I've never had anyone be offended that I asked... and even if they decline they are always flattered.

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