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I hate to skew your numbers, but, we personally know 4.5 in the lifestyleand have played with them all but 1. Why the .5? One is technically part of a couple but he never played.

They are out there but I'm sure they have full dance cards.

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Sorry to hear that Jaycee881, but welcome to the forums!

No matter how much effort energy we've spent on our profile, we STILL get the occassional one-liners or pictures seekers. We think it paints an accurate picture of who we are and what we're looking for, so I have no idea what makes folks think we're "easy prey"?

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Single here!! :0) Before I made changes to my profile I would be approched by couples with one line emails. No Thanks! I just decided that when I want to play, I will find the ones that do it for me.....I know where they are! lol

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unfortunately we live too far from each other to suggest a meeting.

;-)

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We don't understand the all talk/no follow up either... if they aren't sincere why bother being a paid member, let alone contacting us? Of the handful of single women we've corresponded with, none have followed through and only 1 or 2 were interested in being treated like a person (rather than a possession or a piece of meat). We must say it was quite disappointing as we were looking for someone who brings more to the table than just a libido.

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bwahahah! on the threesome/pizza comparison. that's funny!

my overwhelming experience since rejoining the site a few months ago is folks who are "hit and run" types or all talk and no follow up.

it's kind of like when i was dating {{{{shudder}}}}} prior to marrying my stbx: you've gotta meet gazillions of folks to find even a few potentials, and then out of the potentials, if you find one or two good'uns, that's lucky.

it's okay, i have waited so many years a little longer won't make much difference. ;)

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Perfectly understandable njnybiwfemme, and welcome to the forums! Far too often we get one sentence e-mails, or profiles just wanting to see our pics (which is precisely the reason we took them down in the 1st place). It's a shame that more folks aren't willing to spend the time to get to know you and in turn give you a chance to get to know them. But sadly enough we know that courtesy and consideration are the exception rather than the norm. What's wrong with a little conversation? Guess it's the "instant gratification" nation, where folks think having a threesome is as easy as ordering pizza. LOL!

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(to continue)...I prefer both halves to approach, and prefer to meet in person/neutral setting to determine if a second meeting or further "get to know each other" stuff is warranted.

but I don't and won't do "cold" sex with unknown folks.

which probably cuts me off most couples' lists. and that's ok--we all have our preference.

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haven't read all the replies but at most recent count you are up to 6.

<----7!

and getting tired of meeting couples who then turn round and don't follow up/follow through.

one, real, couple is in contact and that's grand--we are becoming friends and on the way to something more.

however it seems most couples are into one line or one/two sentence approach rapidly followed by "let's meet! Text me!" (which necessitates of course me revealing *my* cell to people I've never met--um, no, not happening!) and "let's have dinner/drinks & see what happens lol" or the like.

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The couple should approach together, this lets me know they are on the same page.

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