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TOPIC: Friends first
Created by: cuddlebarepair
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We are wondering why we see so many people wanting to be "friends first" or friends "in and out" of the bedroom, instead of just playmates for sexual adventures. We always thought swinging and swapping was NOT all about making best friends forever, but for the purpose of having sexual entertainment with others that enjoy no strings sex with others. What ever happen to "fuck buddies" couples or people that get together for the sole purpose of casual sex?

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This appears to us to be another one of those "different strokes for different folks" issues. There are no rules in swinging. Do what YOU like.

When we were knew, we felt more comfortable about becoming friends first. Then we went to a few house parties. It's amazing how fast you can become friends after having sex with someone! :-)

Isn't sex about the friendliest thing two (or more) people can do together?

Jim

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If you consider that a lot of couples, particularly the less-experienced, might be a little cautious about who they share their intimate life with, maybe it makes sense that they'd like to get to know you fairly well before they fuck you.

Could that be what "friends first" means?

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Nice to know ;)

Augusta NJ
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Oh it was definately a statement, not a complaint!!!

San Marcos TX
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Yes I am and proud of it :)

Augusta NJ
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Heehee, you lust addict you!!

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How about friendly fuck buddies?

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I do have to tell you though....we have found that once you go into the realm of "good friends" the dynamics tend to change away from sexual. I have 2 people I met in the lifestyle, originally intended to be fuck buddies and nothing more. Now they are within my tiny inner circle. To think about fucking them now seems odd.

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Same here. We have more friends in the Lifestyle that we don't play with than we do play with.

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Friends means they like you...and they want to do it again, and again, and again...and so on."

We have lots of friends in the lifestyle that we have never had sex with...and have no plans on having sex with.

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