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That certainly was a bummer & is a problem when you meet people for the first time at a club. It's better to ask a few questions before going off to a playroom & state your preferences/rules. Live & learn.

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I agree with so many of the points mentioned below. We just came up with another quite by chance. Hubby and I are having a great time at a club. There were two couples we were talking to who came together and another single couple who we were really having a good time with. When it came time to head to the playroom, single couple disappeared so I being the female and in charge in these situations asked the other two couples if they wanted to join us. A resounding yes. A few minutes later in the playroom Im having a grand old time with the two guys and so I thought, hubby was enjoying the women. Bodies everywhere, dim lighting. Well little did I know that the ladies refused to touch my husband. One was mildly receptive to him, the other backed away. They then kept to themselves. Now if I had known that then - that they were snubbing my husband after expressing interest - I would have excused myself from their SO and rolled over three times to my guy. My guy didnt want to disturb me bc he wanted me to continue having a good time. This was definitely a lesson learned. Someone snubs my life partner like that....they snub me so buuuy bye!

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I have to agree with Mo's points and add no to any hair down there. Cocky/handsy men will get no where with me especially if you just walk up and touch me. Bad breath is a huge turn off for us both too. -Mrs

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I will second every one of Mo's points.

I will also add: Women who don't take care of their hands or feet. I don't care if a woman is stunningly gorgeous if her feet are all crusty or cracked. I'm out.

Scuff, file, lotion... whatever, and start wearing socks around the house to heal your heals, lol.

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(9) Any sense or evidence of hubby being "bi-" (even if claims straight)

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Great thread. "Deal breakers" vs. "preferences": there's a big difference.

Deal breakers that come to mind:

(1) lack of physical attraction (obviously?)

(2) 420 and/or drug friendly (at least where I can smell it…usually profusely)

(3) blatant arrogance/snobbery (never yet seen thankfully)

(4) body odor (obviously!)

(5) any clinical evidence of genital health problems (never yet seen thankfully)

(6) bad teeth

(7) "no kissing" rule (With all due respect, I love this too much.)

(8) any hubby "bad vibe/intimidation/sign of jealously or drama during "warm up" or during "getting to know the couple at the bar/wherever"

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We have preferences for sure and feel we are flexible with most of them, after all they should really just be guide lines to who we are looking for. If anything could be a deal breaker it would be personality and that is something you really can't judge well until you meet in person.

Saddle Brook NJ
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Ms T you might consider putting those things in your profile if they are serious deal breakers for you.

Louisville KY
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The last thing a pubic hair hears before it hits the toilet....Patooooie

LOL

I asked about my hairy back once (not really hairy, but some) she said...I ain't gonna lick your back!

But I'm with ya'll - at least south of the Mason-Dixon - keep it clean!

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I played with his girlfriend for a while and had Mr K tell him we only wanted g/g playtime. She was completely waxed in contrast to her fury boyfriend. The boys seemed content to watch but I started to feel bad for my man. We thanked them then we went back to our boyfriends, just finished by having sex next to them.

I just can't deal with hair that's why I stay waxed and lucky for me Mr K just doesn't have much hair to begin with. Hair anywhere but the top of a man or woman's head is a instant turn off along with un circumcised men and foul body odor.

Ms T

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