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TOPIC: Deal breakers
Created by: TeamTKO
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We attended a event just this past weekend where Ms T and I found a couple we seemed to hit it off with. Everything thing was going great, both ladies were enjoying each other so we decided to get into full play. The deal breaker came when the other guy took off his shirt and exposed his extremely hairy chest. This grossed out Ms T and brought play time to a halt. Just wondering if anyone has a things they consider deal breakers?

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(9) Any sense or evidence of hubby being "bi-" (even if claims straight)

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Great thread. "Deal breakers" vs. "preferences": there's a big difference.

Deal breakers that come to mind:

(1) lack of physical attraction (obviously?)

(2) 420 and/or drug friendly (at least where I can smell it…usually profusely)

(3) blatant arrogance/snobbery (never yet seen thankfully)

(4) body odor (obviously!)

(5) any clinical evidence of genital health problems (never yet seen thankfully)

(6) bad teeth

(7) "no kissing" rule (With all due respect, I love this too much.)

(8) any hubby "bad vibe/intimidation/sign of jealously or drama during "warm up" or during "getting to know the couple at the bar/wherever"

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We have preferences for sure and feel we are flexible with most of them, after all they should really just be guide lines to who we are looking for. If anything could be a deal breaker it would be personality and that is something you really can't judge well until you meet in person.

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Ms T you might consider putting those things in your profile if they are serious deal breakers for you.

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The last thing a pubic hair hears before it hits the toilet....Patooooie

LOL

I asked about my hairy back once (not really hairy, but some) she said...I ain't gonna lick your back!

But I'm with ya'll - at least south of the Mason-Dixon - keep it clean!

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I played with his girlfriend for a while and had Mr K tell him we only wanted g/g playtime. She was completely waxed in contrast to her fury boyfriend. The boys seemed content to watch but I started to feel bad for my man. We thanked them then we went back to our boyfriends, just finished by having sex next to them.

I just can't deal with hair that's why I stay waxed and lucky for me Mr K just doesn't have much hair to begin with. Hair anywhere but the top of a man or woman's head is a instant turn off along with un circumcised men and foul body odor.

Ms T

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"You use your pubic hairs as dental floss?"

Not if there isn't any.....

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You use your pubic hairs as dental floss?

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Second the pervasive "bad smells" category -- burnt tobacco for sure, and also heavy cologne.

Any man who reminds her of her father. I never met him, but this deal-breaker seems to involve no apparent sense of humor, along with some physical characteristics.

A woman's lack of imagination inevitably erodes my enthusiasm.

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Lack of genital trimming. We do not like dental floss when we're playing orally.

Refusal to use condom for penetration (that's a whole 'nother thread in other forums).

Bad smells (body odor, smoke, etc).

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TOPIC: Deal breakers