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User Details are only visible to members.	Great comments all around! I AM getting seriously addicted to these forums.....!
Floral Park NY			Username hidden (55 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This subject comes up all the time in the lifestyle. Single males are a dime a dozen. That's good because you won't have problems finding one and bad because you have to weed through so many to find one you might want to talk to. We agree, the couple should contact the single guy, not vice versa. However, if the guy does contact first they HAVE to understand we're a COUPLE. Stop focusing solely on her and get to know both. If you don't have pics on your profile don't expect us to jump. This is a hobby that starts with attraction, get used to it. I want to see who want's to play with us and it's not going to happen if you don't have pics, and I'm not talking one or two lame pics. Finally, be honest, sincere, and genuine. We already know you honestly, sincerely, and genuninely want to get laid so think again we need candor about you. The single men that we play with are friends to by my husband and I. They realize that he's a part of the equation. It benefited them well by putting that effort into us, because with them my husband is perfectly OK with my playing with them alone. Oh yes, take some time, it could be very fruitful for you..
Lorton VA			Username hidden (5 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Certified Male- 1. There is a big demand for single males. Let women and couples come to you-never approach them. 2. Also, I see you have single males blocked. Why in the world would you do that? Stud males are always looking for qualified men to help us, but we can't contact you to do so.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (856 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Most woman want to know if you are going to be respectful. If you come out with a introduction and say " I can eat you all night". Duh, that is a major turnoff. The first word is " I ". Sorry to say, but single men are here for the woman, which means she comes first. We read the single male profiles and laugh at the ones with no personality,creativity, pics of their johnson or muscles, like that is going to make us email them. You are simply selling yourself like you want a job. Sharp not sloppy, clean not smelly or to much cologne, sure of himself not full of himself. Be truthful and mention alittle about yourself.
Warner Robins GA			Username hidden (23 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We are not looking for them but we can tell you what makes us angry. Any one liners. The hey i could fuck her better. And last the why not. patrick Pattie
Sandston VA			Username hidden (141 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	we can say from experience with guys if you email a couple and just say we should meet or big cock lets fuck or something short and dum like that chances are thay will block you or you will turn them rite off your profile respect is the key and dont be afraid to type more than one line
Rensselaer NY			Username hidden (24 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Approach couples with respect...means reading the profile, having yours filled out, and a couple G-rated pics...and realizing that there are two of them in the relationship. If you treat them how you would want...or expect...to be treated, then they should be more receptive. Take care, good luck, and we'll be looking for your mail...wink, wink!
Charlotte NC			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	First of all read the damn profile, before you write. Then talk about what you read, in your message, give us a reason to respond! Example: (I am an exhibitionist, and profile says so) "I see that you are an exhibitionist, I do know a great little bar that you would be welcome to flash a little and/or wear something revealing" We are, after all, swingers, give us a reason to be interested, take a little time and write something intelligent. Also there needs to be pictures, need not be x-rated, just pics. Hope this helps all you single guys out there. Foxxy
San Dimas CA			Username hidden (48 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Dont tell, Might work for civilians, but for military won't always work. Single military either live in barracks, or share a place with other military, and they have to respect each others privacy as much as possible. Not alot of privacy in the military itself. I've lived in barracks that were open bay (about 300 beds) that the only seperation between the next set of bunks was a blanket. I've also lived in barracks that were shared rooms, or had a common living room with individual bedrooms. If a couple asked to go to my place I would be forward and say I live in the barracks, or I share an apartment or house with others that don't know I do this. If a couples thinks I'm a cheater I'm sure driving to the base for a tour would aleveate that problem. No I'm not going to mention living onboard ship, that's the worst for privacy.
Palm Beach Gardens FL			Username hidden (188 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	So, certified_male, did you get the answers you sought? LOL Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23665 post)

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