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User Details are only visible to members.	SnR - you wrote exactly what we think! Be our friend first, be at least HWP, be a gentleman online (save the slutty/dirty talk for the bedroom), be honest! Your profile should reflect a real personality (not a fantasy male whore). And if you are interested in playing with a couple, remember the male half is part of the equation (means you might be sharing her, so you have to be comfortable with another guy in the room or in close proximity). Girls are probably more picky than men. Don't take it personally if she says "no thanks". But if she picks you out, chats with you and expresses on interest in meeting, that means she is probably hot for you. So don't be a flake! We've invited a single man to join us and it was great fun (and we're still friends). Then we recently got a string of "no-shows" or last minute excuses. We're allowing you to enjoy some quality time with her, it's a sure thing, and your actions (or nonactions) really hurt her feelings.
Las Vegas NV			Username hidden (833 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Welcome to the Forum SnR, take your time and you will easily find what you are looking for. TVK
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We're new, but a couple things that have turned us off from certain guys already... 1. Please don't tell me in your second email that you've already "jacked off" to my picture a few times. Dude, all I show is my legs. Chill. That message was deleted and he got no further response. 2. When sending the first email especially, do not graphically explain what you are going to do to both of us. My hubby is listed as straight and we say in our profile that the sm we find will be playing with me, so don't tell us what you're going to do to him, that's my job for later. That message got a no thank you response as soon as I'd read it. So I guess mostly just don't be overly graphic and don't make assumptions. Read the profile and if you're a fit, respond accordingly.
San Diego CA			Username hidden (52 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I always approach a couple with respect and hope for the better! I lived out of hot beds in the NAvy and know what means to be private and considerate!
Chester NJ			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It appears that reading the profile is important with a few people.
Middletown DE			Username hidden (466 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	A clean respectful email showing an indication you've read our profile. For instance the wife likes to dance, say you can dance, etc. Also, don't email if you are clearly not a fit, waste of everyone time, for instance we've had bi-males email us - even though our profile makes it clear that is not of interest. If a couple says HWP and you're not, what gives with bothering to email? Have your own profile up to date, well written, humor is a plus, having both non-graphic full body photos and tasteful graphic photos (although I know thats subjective), face pics to send on request. We never hook up over SLS or any site, but we do meet out at lifestyle events, so having prior SLS introductions can be a plus.
Oklahoma City OK			Username hidden (214 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	A nice email that shows you have read our profile works for us. We don't have a problem with guyssending emails or IM's if they fit into what we are looking for. Isn't that why we are here?
Middletown DE			Username hidden (466 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	sweet, good point. I never use my profile for posts like that so I would have never thought of that.....
Floral Park NY			Username hidden (55 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I for one like the fact that single males cannot contact or view my profile when I have them blocked. I do not want to post that I am going to be at a club or outing and someone I have blocked reads and decides we need to meet.
Spring TX			Username hidden (1847 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	A random comment.... One of the things O really love to do is read profiles. Sure, the pic sucks me in (I mean, who doesn't like a sexy pic?) but I am finding that all these blocked profiles..... I have an 'old' couple profile here that I can't seem to delete (de-populated it instead) so I can use that....it's just not me though! Hell, when I went to change the 'ownership' of my group (Hudson Valley Horndogs) to my single profile I had to unblock myself!! I think a better solution would be for the site master to block COMMUNICATION from males, not the viewing. We all say we want to teach these 'little boys'....isn't example the best teacher? OK, I'm getting down off the box now.... ;)
Floral Park NY			Username hidden (55 post)

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