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TOPIC: Are we looking for to much

Created by: bckn2it Original Starting post for this thread:
We have been around the lifestyle for almost 6 years now. We have had maybe a total of 5 experiances. We are looking for couples to get to know. couples we can be friends with, Couples we can relate to some. We arent really just looking to fuck someone. Our idea of a good time is to spend time togther hanging out then let the evening progress. Not just meet have dinner then sex. We are both pretty shy, wondering if maybe some people take that as being snobby? But we enjoy talking to other people and definatly dont want to be pushy as we dont like to be pushed! lol Any ideas? Any Help would be appericated! Thank you I and A

Created by: bckn2it
Original Starting post for this thread:

We have been around the lifestyle for almost 6 years now. We have had maybe a total of 5 experiances. We are looking for couples to get to know. couples we can be friends with, Couples we can relate to some. We arent really just looking to fuck someone. Our idea of a good time is to spend time togther hanging out then let the evening progress. Not just meet have dinner then sex. We are both pretty shy, wondering if maybe some people take that as being snobby? But we enjoy talking to other people and definatly dont want to be pushy as we dont like to be pushed! lol
Any ideas? Any Help would be appericated!
Thank you
I and A

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User Details are only visible to members.	There is nothing wrong with what you are looking for. I would say a huge percentage of couples are looking for the same thing. Heck. We would LOVE g-rated friends with benefits. Before we moved, we had a couple of couples that were exactly that. We became really close friends and also played. Youre not looking for anything strange. But there are couples out there who are not looking for that. Ive posted our attitude about single men. We dont want to be friends. I only have one penis. We want two from time to time. So we seek out another penis. But with that comes a guy attached. So the less the "guy" interferes with our borrowed penis the better. Some couples are similar to that. Theyre home and horny and looking for someone to come over tonight and fuck. They see all the rest as just boring interference. Just be a little more clear in your profile and you will have no problem finding those who think the same.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think your post here paints a clearer picture of what your looking for than you profile does. Make what your looking for as clear as you can and be patient and you willfind what you are looking for. And it ok to be shy and to take you time and let things flow. But when your sure the time is right go for it. You would be surprise how many time 4 people will sit thinking,I want to play but no one will make the first move.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2188 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"We are both pretty shy, wondering if maybe some people take that as being snobby?" If by shy you mean you don't initiate conversation, then yes, a common perception by most would be is that you could be snobby.
Emeryville CA			Username hidden (12135 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have been around the lifestyle for almost 6 years now. We have had maybe a total of 5 experiances. We are looking for couples to get to know. couples we can be friends with, Couples we can relate to some. We arent really just looking to fuck someone. Our idea of a good time is to spend time togther hanging out then let the evening progress. Not just meet have dinner then sex. We are both pretty shy, wondering if maybe some people take that as being snobby? But we enjoy talking to other people and definatly dont want to be pushy as we dont like to be pushed! lol Any ideas? Any Help would be appericated! Thank you I and A
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