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TOPIC: Are swingers the rudest most inconsiderate people out there Part 2
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Well thank you. Perhaps Louisiana would be a better trip? Lol

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Wendan, welcome to the forums. I hope you stick around and make yourselves at home. Your outlook on things and sense of humor are refreshing.

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we have so many more however we do not let them get to us. We just laugh and go on. I'm sure others feel that we have been flaky as wellbut you're right it probably wasn't a good match anyway.

we really enjoyed our swinging time. But it can be frustrating at times we just make the most of it. quite honestly hubby was so turned on last week because I was having so much fun that he couldn't wait to get me back to our room.

And that is what is important in the grand scheme of things anyhow. ;)

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wendan, welcome to the forums. Your stories are pretty crazy. But swinging is a bit like going to restaurants. You aren't going to like them all, and they won't all like you. It's variety we are after, and only some of it is going to be good.

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LOL And I thought we had encountered some rude folks.

Planned to meet a few people while out on the town. Sent face pics to those we were meeting (so they could find us). One couple replies that they don't feel an attraction. Gosh, really? Cause our ohsohot face pics didn't do it? LOL We DO have personalities! After all I was willing to meet them even though I didn't find either of them physically attractive based on their pics. I have found many times that personality is WAY more attractive than any pics on here or wherever.

So we meet another couple. Things are going great. Having a good time. He says I will go get a room. A few minutes later she says she will see what is taking him so long. Poof! They are gone.

Next night? Same thing with a single.

So, should I assume all of Ohio sucks? Nah! But next time I think we will take the extra trek to a party.

I frequently think, "humans suck." But well, it could be because they are humans.

And I am sure that we have upset others at times but we try not to be rude. We also are a little more straightforward, "Hey we had a great time, but we are going home."

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Rude? Inconsiderate? ASSHOLES? You tell us.

Definitely inconsiderate. Assholes? Maybe.

"We though about posting their names here but have seen instances where the site administrators delete such information so if you want to know who these lovely people are, just drop us a note."

If I saw you slagging someone else publicly and naming them, I would stay the hell away from you forever, no matter your reason. And many others would too. NEVER do this - no matter how much someone pisses you off. NEVER! Unless YOU want to be known as the biggest assholes in the world.

"Oh, and if you have any explanations for why swingers are the biggest assholes in the world we are all ears."

A guy in a white van cut me off and then gave ME the finger last week. Do you have an explanation for why guys driving white vans are the biggest assholes in the world?

Calm down. Shit happens. Someone was a jerk, so be it. You cannot let this blow up your fun.

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This seems to be a good time and place.... starting a group in the RDU area of NC. Membership requirements...You have to have been univited,or turned down to a house party. If I can get ten couples I will set it up on a pot luck/cover the room basis. [non profit] This is as offer is as real as the sharks I tag. 'nuff said. Capt Al

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You have experienced the most common thing in the lifestyle... Yes sls is complicit, as these folks raise revenue for them...Yes, they are assholes who will never grow OLD or UP for that matter.... ITS NOT YOU...don't give up. Just take it with a GRIN of salt. Actually these house parties have a "chief rabbit" and its from these folks a invite needs to come. The rank and file members are not authorized to invite BUT they were never told that. Ever been to Junior high school dance? Same mentality. Proceed accordingly.

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What they did was wrong, I can't see where one more couple would make a difference between a large vs. small party. My guess is hubby jumped the gun and invited you guys before checking with the wifey, wifey has some issue and tells hubby you've got to go. Bottom line is that you should have never been "univited", that's socially unacceptable in any walk of life. You're an attractive couple and you live in an area with a lot of lifestyle activity, I would move on and forget those guys. BTW, if we didn't have an address and phone number by noon we would have made other plans.

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I would think they did you a favor, I wouldnt want to party with ppl like that. Good to know ahead of time.

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