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TOPIC: Are swingers the rudest most inconsiderate people out there

Created by: jandact Original Starting post for this thread:
OK, we are used to maybe one in seven or eight or ten plus people to whom we reach out to actually bothering to respond. After all, we just have tons of time on our hands and are just a bother to those to whom we reach out. But we recently tried to set up a party. Would have been our third and the first two were a hassle as far as getting enough people to show up. Invited 20+ couples, ALL OF WHOM WE HAD MET BEFORE, and of those 20+ more than ONE THIRD could not find the time to bother to respond. A simple email, takes a few seconds. Our conclusion, sorry to say, swingers are the rudest people we have encountered anywhere.

Created by: jandact
Original Starting post for this thread:

OK, we are used to maybe one in seven or eight or ten plus people to whom we reach out to actually bothering to respond. After all, we just have tons of time on our hands and are just a bother to those to whom we reach out. But we recently tried to set up a party. Would have been our third and the first two were a hassle as far as getting enough people to show up. Invited 20+ couples, ALL OF WHOM WE HAD MET BEFORE, and of those 20+ more than ONE THIRD could not find the time to bother to respond. A simple email, takes a few seconds. Our conclusion, sorry to say, swingers are the rudest people we have encountered anywhere.

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User Details are only visible to members.	We too are on here for fun, make friends and make some hot same room nooky. But we don't take this that serious to be rude or respond rudely. We are not rude people.
Fairburn GA			Username hidden (54 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We're here for fun and don't take the lifestyle too seriously so it doesn't bother us when we don't get a reply. We rarely initiate contact, but when we do we just let the bird fly and forget about it.
Virginia Beach VA			Username hidden (269 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It seems like "how in effing hell did you dare to mail me?" If you are on the website, respect the tools given to you for communication. Sometimes, i understand the couples, ladies are bombarded with mails. But hey, no is expecting an instant reply. Just reply.
Garland TX			Username hidden (70 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	hanginoutwithu2: Agree. There is no harm in mailing someone and saying no. That is fine. But no reply is rude.
Garland TX			Username hidden (70 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I myself have sent out emails to others and never get a response from most of them. I think that is rude!!! Some of them don't even show the email has been read but the people "were on" in the last day or two. I don't understand why someone can't take the time to send back a message. I will send one back and my time is very limited.
Sophia NC			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We can be very hit and miss at times. Take a while to read and respond to email, take a while to followup, etc. But we SAY that. Both in the profile and in our initial conversation when we start chatting with someone. Another one to chalk up to "Just be honest"
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We reply to all serious e-mails or invitations ASAP. Sometimes we do not monitor our mail as closely, especially after an event or after we have attended a party at a club because we get hit with a lot of mail from people who were fishing from the SLS list... But with that said, we reply to e-mails from mostly everyone. Even the better and more courteous single males...although we are clear in our profile that we will reply to them IF we are interested. We have missed replying occasionally...especially when we have had a bad date or had a couple get us out our comfort zone and taken a little time away...but that was necessary at the time and we still replied eventually. We have found a few less friendly people here, but mostly, we like the people we meet. And we just know that like us, many people here live busy lives. Swinging is fun thing that we do together on weekends...and during the week, we often cannot take much time to talk about it. Just be patient and dont expect that EVERYONE will share your intensity level, or put the same priority on this that you do. People are really generally good..with a few exceptions here and there!
Galloway NJ			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	SVC, Thanks for the suggestions much of what we have done in the past. However, we have never subscribed to the thinking that 'no reply' is a reply that means 'no.' If we take the time to plan an event or just propose a date with a couple or reach out to a couple we have taken some of our valuable time and used it to show someone that we are interested in them. In this day and age of emails and text messages if someone cannot take the 30 seconds it takes to reply then they are just rude and inconsiderate. As for those who say they do not reply because they worry about getting a nasty gram in response to declining someone we have been here for well over two years and gotten exactly zero nasty grams from people whom we have declined.
Stamford CT			Username hidden (39 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Like any invitation, it may be assumed that no response is the same as "we can't come". Perhaps your house party invitations need to have "please RSVP" and options for a) looking forward to it, b) would love to but already busy that night, and c) thanks but not interested. If you get any c) then take those folks off your mailing list.
Las Vegas NV			Username hidden (834 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We reply to everyone. We do reply rudely if the people who contacted us cannot come up with something better than saying "hello"... to those people we reply with an equally lame response of "goodbye". At least throw us a bone and show you read our profile and have a feel for us enough that you can comment on our likes dislikes or things in common.
Rocky Point NC			Username hidden (19 post)

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