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Created by: john7361 Original Starting post for this thread:
I know this may not belong in the profile forum section, but it’s kinda directly related to your profile on whether you even get a email. What do you expect in the first email you receive from someone? Or what would turn you off in the email? I think this will be a little more basic than the other two threads in this forum about the top 5 worse and best things in a profile. 1. Don’t email me and expect me to meet you 3 hours from now. 2. Less than a 100 words in an email is a no-no. say something I want to hear about why you contacted me, or what in my profile that made you want to email me.. 3. If in the email you ask for my face picture you better have sent yours already in with your email. 4. Be kind and don’t tell me what you both want to do to me when we meet, we’ll discus that later. Just because I’m a guy, doesn’t mean I deserve any less respect than if you emailed a woman. 5. And for god sake, if I politely say “Not Interested” don’t come back with a email how I’m not worth your time anyway. Or some other derogatory words. It just proves how right I was in the first place. 6. never email me and only say” Check us out and get back to us” that will get your email deleted. 7 this is my biggest one, Only email me after you read my profile completely, because if I read yours and we obviously are looking for two totally different experiences then why waste yours and my time. Either that proves to me that you don’t read profiles and just look at pictures or your profile is completely wrong and your looking for something totally different than your profiles says, and you should be more truthful in it.

Created by: john7361
Original Starting post for this thread:

I know this may not belong in the profile forum section, but it’s kinda directly related to your profile on whether you even get a email.
What do you expect in the first email you receive from someone? Or what would turn you off in the email?
I think this will be a little more basic than the other two threads in this forum about the top 5 worse and best things in a profile.

1. Don’t email me and expect me to meet you 3 hours from now.
2. Less than a 100 words in an email is a no-no. say something I want to hear about why you contacted me, or what in my profile that made you want to email me..
3. If in the email you ask for my face picture you better have sent yours already in with your email.
4. Be kind and don’t tell me what you both want to do to me when we meet, we’ll discus that later.
Just because I’m a guy, doesn’t mean I deserve any less respect than if you emailed a woman.
5. And for god sake, if I politely say “Not Interested” don’t come back with a email how I’m not worth your time anyway. Or some other derogatory words. It just proves how right I was in the first place.
6. never email me and only say” Check us out and get back to us” that will get your email deleted.
 
7 this is my biggest one, 
Only email me after you read my profile completely, because if I read yours and we obviously are looking for two totally different experiences then why waste yours and my time. Either that proves to me that you don’t read profiles and just look at pictures or your profile is completely wrong and your looking for something totally different than your profiles says, and you should be more truthful in it.

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User Details are only visible to members.	This one: "Hey, the wife has incredible tits. Sure would like to fuck her." Yep, ding ding ding! We have a winner!!!!! Shell
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (21703 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The ones that obviously have not read our profile and see we are softies, we smoke, drink and then their profile hates smokers, drinkers and want to full swap. Yeah the pics looked good and they were close so lets write...lol We like a short note, "liked your profile, please check our ours and if you want to talk let us know". Being in a tourist town is interesting too. "Hey we are visiting Destin for 3 days and want some action, wanna meet and fuck?" Now that is a real turn on...LOL
Destin FL			Username hidden (14563 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Wow our first e-mail don't have 100 words in them. We send a short hello with we like your profile and think we have something in common. It seems to work for us. We expect others to look at our profile and see if they feel the same. Patrick Pattie
Sandston VA			Username hidden (142 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	well with a name like rabbit/bunny u better like.... hip hop!! haha
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (5360 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have had more than one couple email me at like 8pm and ask if I am available that night then not give any more details. When I email to find out what they have in mind, they never respond. In this situation, I am totally turned off, but I follow up out of curiousity as to what is wrong with them. Also, horrible grammer and spelling is an absolute turn-off. When you cannot even figure out what the person is trying to say, that is a bad thing. Does using "U" in place of "you" really save that much time?
Indianapolis IN			Username hidden (251 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	e-mail turn offs: 1. holla back atme 2.I think I've got what it takes to satisfy you 3. My wife wants us to get together.( I'm not bi-) it's posted 4.I'll make you change your mind 5 incomplete profiles 6. no pics before asking to meet 7.persistant couples that won't takes bi-sexuality notta and stop asking 8.non certifications and no pics 9. looking at a pic and know the person is not the age they say or or posting old pics. 10. Mails that hit over and over when I do not respond for may reasons. 11. when I'm asked,"What about me don't you like." I want to suck those ltits and fuck the hell out of you. 12. COCK SHOTS ONLY
Olive Branch MS			Username hidden (31 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	In answer to the original post, the only thing that really causes me to hit DELETE without abandon is when they say dumb crap like "I really want to F*** your woman." No, I thought this was a checkers meeting club. Sex? Really? DELETE! Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (21703 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You mean someone actually said that in a return email to you?
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (1516 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well hun, when I can see the animal lust in someone's eyes...... I have been known to reply "YES! TAKE ME NOW!"
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8607 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Works for me too, funny thing tho, it never works when i say it, even to my own wife, lol if she says it to me i usually have my cloths off before she finishes the "ck" in " wanna fuck" lol
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (1516 post)

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