Check your spelling and syntax. Tounge is actually spelled tongue. Punctuation is noticeably missing...without the comma, I gather her tongue is both pieced and tattooed. (She's got a set of brass ones the size of church bells getting a tat on her tongue! I hurt just thinking about it.) In addition, make sure your sentences start with a capital letter, and you have a couple spaces after a full stop period before starting the next sentence. The third section sounds like a rephrasing of the first, suggest you move the contents of the third section into the first, and rework the first for an overall smoother flow of your wants. Then take turns reading your whole profile to each other, making note of what doesn't sound right. Correct those findings and repeat. After a few readings, you'll have a profile that better reflects you :) Last item, prepare for your profile to be shut down :( SLS doesn't care if you are paid or free members, adding any external contact information is a violation of their rules. Good luck, Mrs TF3

Thank you very much for all your advice it really is a great attribute to us.

To follow up on what Kat said -- I did a search of single women within 60 miles of you who fall into your desired age range. The good news is that there are 41. The bad news is that only 4 of them are paid members. We're not as negative about the free members as some on here are, but paid members are less likely to only be curious. The other problem with finding single woman on these sites is that some of them are looking for a financial arrangement. I'm fairly sure that's not what you're looking for. I don't want to discourage you from looking for exactly what you want, but you might benefit from also searching for couples who are looking for the same thing you are. And a minor suggestion for the profile. I think you mean "unsatisfied," not "dissatisfied."

Hi Josh and Lacey, It must be very frustrating, I'm sure. You can't help how young you are. I looked over your profile and your pics are great - very attractive couple. Your profile is actually better than a lot of folks twice your age, lol! You do need to insert some punctuation just to clean it up a bit. You also might try to add if you are brand new to swinging, or if you have had some experience....do you play on first meet or prefer taking your time. Could add how you would like a meet to go.....out for drinks, dinner. The difficulty is in looking for a single female....and that's for everyone not just you guys : ) If you've read some of the forum threads, people will tell you to go to college bars or lesbian bars...that it's actually easier to pick them up that way. Have you looked for a group in your area? Click on Groups on the side bar and go to South Carolina. I was able to find a few that had couples in your age range (but I didn't know if the group was near where you live). This would be a great, no-pressure way to meet others and hopefully get some certs. There is always a members list. Before the next meet, you can look up some potential couples or single females and e-mail them to introduce yourself. This has worked for friends of ours...hope it does for you two! Best wishes, Kat

We have been in the life style for almost a year we cant seem to be able to find any one that are really interested. We send mail and get ignored. Yes we are young but we are serious can any one help us