How about adding a public pic or two of the male half? ; )

NOt a bad profile, and great pictures. You need some punctuation. I always advise people to try to read your profile out loud to each other to note natural pauses, or if something doesn't sound clear. It's easier to make changes then.

Good luck
G.

thanks for your reply ill thing of somthing to add

You did an update? Meaning you rewrote/reworked your profile I am thinking. I think the tag line is a great place to advertise that you did that. Otherwise ppl may not know that the old one has be rewritten. Your profile is well written. We like to read of others interests or hobbies. We find that to be helpful when looking for common interests--helps to break the ice.

just did a update this week and still nothing what are we doing wrong
please help