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TOPIC: Negativity on profiles
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Earlier today, I was looking at some of the advice y'all have given on profiles recently and something popped into my mind about negativity. It's an incomplete thought, and I didn't want to distract from any OP's post by a digression so here I am. :)
As we all know (or we SHOULD know), negativity can absolutely kill a profile, but what I was wondering is how much of it is true negativity (meaning the person/couple is an asshole) and how much is just that some folks would prefer to avoid being in the position of having to say no thanks, and they're unconsciously painting themselves into a corner through less than perfect communication?
I got to thinking that the "I don't want to have to say no" thing may be a LOT more common than we may think it is, and that it's probably not a bad idea for me to keep an open mind when that stuff comes up, particularly when it's written in such a way that a less negative explanation is plausible. Either that, or I could be full of shit. Which is entirely possible. :)
Thoughts? Yes, you're right? No Sorillo, you need to lay off the turpentine cocktails? I'm wondering what y'all think.
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TOPIC: Negativity on profiles
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