OK, from our perspective the reasons we would not reply to your profile: 1.) no public pictures of him, and though the bra pic is nice it doesn't say much about what she looks like. Our female half would look at the pic and say "nice, but what does he look like, and why are they afraid to show him?" 2.) the whole "friends before sex" paragraph. This is probably simply a preference on our part, but we don't like to feel as if we're "dating" another couple. We're not trying to build a relationship, just trying to have fun. If we become friends later, that's a bonus. We know there are MANY people in the lifestyle who don't feel this way, but also many who do. 3.) The overall impression your profile leaves us with is: "You would be very fortunate to get us naked, and if you do, it's all about pleasing us - you exist to satisfy OUR needs in bed". Even if it is true, that kind of feeling (coupled with point 2 above) leaves the impression we will put in a lot of work to get naked with you and what's in it for us? These are obviously subjective evaluations, but that was the overall impression your profile give us ....

We've been having a lot of people show initial interest, and then nothing. So it makes we wonder if one part of the couple likes wha they see, and I can almost imagine the other half smacking them in the back of the head asking, "What were ya thinking numbskull?"

So while trying to figure out the problem, it occurred to me it could be the profile. So any helpful advice is welcome.

David