Ok, Styles, I have two points to make:

First, I HATE that your upper age limit is 45. Dang that!

Two, with those fantastic pics, it is redundant overkill to include all that lofty prose detailing your personal beauty. You won't lose appeal if you tone that self appreciation down some, and let the pics do the talking. And it's nice that you love each other, but I'm not certain that such is a big deal to others. Might be more useful to include something about your respective personalities.

Can't think of any changes or criticism. The profile seems to be well thought out and detailed. I don't think anyone that reads it will have any question about what you guys are looking for and your expectations. Good luck in your search.

all looks good

No plans in the near future. Too many other personal travel plans, and no conventions for my husband (which is why he was there last year) are being held there this year. But who knows what next year will bring, maybe we will head down there for a fun filled long week-end.

PG

LOL? Really? We haven't been back on the site for to long PG. So I guess I never paid attention. It's okay, we will catch you next time.

You do have plans to make it back this way right?

"16,000 views in the last 30 days, 15 emails. "

styles, unless you are keeping track yourself, just FYI the views no longer reset every 30 days and haven't the almost 3 years we've been on the site.

sorry we didn't get to meet up with you in new orleans last year, but happy for you that you found the girl of your dreams!

PG

Oh and I do know what I want Wanna, and you have given great advice, and after this thread I will definitely be making adjustments to my profile. It's not that we haven't been getting the responses that we want from our profile, it's just that the responses we get are very few. It's because most people view us as "unapproachable" I guess. 16,000 views in the last 30 days, 15 emails. However I am starting to think that may not be such a bad thing.

*So, Styles, if everything in your world is as good as you portray -- perfect life, sex can't be beat at home, etc. -- why, exactly, *are* you on this site?*

Sorry Wanna that is the question that I was actually addressing. It was typed by tablefor3 not yourself. So I wasn't aiming the last part of my previous post in your direction ;)

I'm not saying I do not value your opinion or that I am not appreciative of the review. I am very appreciative and you make great points. Please don't misunderstand me. Your writing is great and I do not judge all people based on their weight or looks, just the people I am having sex with. And as for the question of whywe are here if our life is so perfect, well why wouldn't we be? I get pleasure from watching my fiancé get pleasure from other people. We have fantasies that involve more than each other. And personally I think if you're not here for those reasons then you don't get it at all. Joining a swinger site and participating in the lifestyle becaus things are not great at home is the worst reason to be here. I'm not saying that your life is like that, but it sure seems like your implying that it's the reason most people jump in bed with people other than their spouses. Wanna I value your opinion, and thank you once more. -Styles

So, Styles, if everything in your world is as good as you portray -- perfect life, sex can't be beat at home, etc. -- why, exactly, *are* you on this site? By your arrogant profile and attitude, it would seem there is nobody on here but the very people you want to deny the <gasp> privilege of meeting you.

I'm gathering Wanna is politely urging you to tone it down. We would agree with that notion, if you are interested in our disinterested opinion.