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TOPIC: Worthless Profiles
Created by: Dancing2Some
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It's great to have a forum such as this, where those who would like to, can come and seek advice on how to better their profiles. We like to look at profiles here, even though we very rarely choose to make any initial contacts. We come across many profiles that are exceptionally well written, and sometimes very entertaining. We much prefer the profiles with a little substance to them, and feel it gives the viewers a glimpse at what the owners personality is like. Of course another means would be to view their posting history here on the forums. Obviously if the bulk of their post history were combative and argumentative, this might cause many to steer away. But what about those profiles that don't have a "posting history" here,and truly show no redeeming social values at all? Our personal pet peeve is the super brief profiles that say not much more than "We like to meet other sexy people to fuck", or something along those lines. Probably even a bigger turn off for us is to be contacted by someone, usually a single guy, that has a pretty much blank profile, no pictures at all, and yet has a paid membership here. Maybe we're super-critical here, but nothing spells out "married guy looking to cheat" quicker than that scenario to us. Brief wording, because he doesn't care who he scores with, no pic, because he can't afford to have anyone see him here that might tell the wife, and a paid profile, so that he can perve other peoples naked pictures. I'm not knocking single guys here at all, as many have excellent profiles, I just figure them to be a little more serious at finding potential playmates. So anyone else have any profile pet peeves? Maybe this can turn into a "What NOT to do in your profile" and down the road might serve to help some that are hesitant or unable to post here for individual advice.

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You forgot to make it ALL CAPS, too! That'll get their attention.

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For us, any profile with "69" in the name gets a strike against them.

Chattanooga TN
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PS.....lol, as fa as responding to e-mails, we do that together. I'd say that I field half and Connie takes the other half. As a general rule, I'll usually respond to e-mails that seem to come from guys and she handles those that seem to come from the women side.

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There's lots of great responses here! I wonder though if it's effective, as I'm betting the people that MOST need to improve on their profiles some, are probably the ones that are least likely to read anything on the forums,lol. Sus made an interesting point, How easy do the rest of you believe that you can identify a couple's profile that has been obviously written by the male half of the couple, with or without his spouses knowledge? Ours is hard, as we're both a little nutty, and though we are continuously changing things to keep it interesting, it's sometimes tough to tell where nutty left off and nuttier took over,lol

Reno NV
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"OK Poly, I'll stop telling everyone I have a ten incher too! ;)"

Does that mean it is really 9&3/4's? *mischievous grin*

Fort Worth TX
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and btw, does standard 5 to 10 lb give or take translate to a 1 to 2 yr give or take on age???? hehe

Philadelphia PA
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*we don't contact, contacts reach out to us*

blatant example of a LIE, u emailed us first!!! ;-)

btw, coming clean, the (my) russian actually weighs 140!!!! hahahaha

Philadelphia PA
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OK Poly, I'll stop telling everyone I have a ten incher too! ;)

Reno NV
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Note to self: Stop representing myself as a Brad Pit look-a-like

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"Raven, we agree, it's important to use gud gremer and have grate speelin! ;)"

Hey, I was drinking coffee when I read that. Now my kiybrded is drnken the cofie. LOLOL!

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TOPIC: Worthless Profiles