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TOPIC: Worked on my profile a bit

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User Details are only visible to members.	i agree with below posts, also your first paragraph "Looking For" is not saying what you are looking for... except 'just friendship' ? You need to really 'think' about ... what YOU would like to find or are open to finding... females? couples? personalities traits? physical traits? etc etc... and try to get some of it in writing. ... Make an outline in a word document of all the things you would like to find and experience in the lifestyle. ... Organize it later. Second... this 'friendship' thing ... it sounds like you are very apprehensive about the lifestyle and what commitment you may be making. i don't think our profiles are intended to make a commitment to anyone, we are just trying to 'attract' people that we 'mite' want to meet and make a play date with at some point. ... it is your choice when, where and what you want to do, with whom, after you start chatting, emails or meeting them, ... so i don't think you need to show how worried you are about it, maybe just a casual... 'i may or may not play on the first date' (whatever rule you think you should have) i don't think you 'really know what you are seeking' yet... but you do need to figure some of these things out to create an attractive profile, that in return will attract the type of people you would like to meet. it's not easy, but might be very worth it for you after its done, and even then you can always change it as your preferences change...
Brodheadsville PA			Username hidden (1786 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hi Juan, I can give you points for spelling and grammar, however, your profile lacks pizzazz (although I did enjoy what you posted under What Else We'd Like to Say...let's me know that you can be funny, lol). You're new to the LS, I believe (which is fine!), but you need to state that. How would you like to go about meeting folks? Would you enjoy meeting for drinks and/or dinner? Have you attended any clubs, or meet and greets? As a SM your profile needs to project what you can provide for a SF/couple, whereas your profile focuses solely on you. In addition, some of the information under Description makes your profile more suitable for Eharmony. Don't get me wrong; you sound like a great guy! It's just that SLS is not a dating site. I like the pic you have of yourself...great smile, BTW! Do yourself a favor and post some more pics, preferably ones that show the entire body (clothed is fine). Two more things would definitely help: Attend a meet and greet in your area. This is a great, relaxed way to meet other couples and single females in your area who can then certify that you're real. Certifications are very important for SM's! The second thing would be to look at other successful SM profiles so you can get a better feel for what works. A good example you might want to review would be the SM profile of Fun_Ahoy. Best wishes! Kat
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TOPIC: Worked on my profile a bit