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TOPIC: Why do most folks refuse to post pictures of their man
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| In most cases the man is always the deal breaker. His identity is hidden until contact is made, and then often his image remains obscure until the first meeting. If they think he is that unattractive that he has to remain behind a veil until the wife's pictures open the door, what makes them think he is going to get better looking after everyone meets? |
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You're right that no meet would be a better policy, but we like going to the club(s) anyway, so its no wasted time, its more of a well be there 'if you want to show up' type of meeting. It's more polite than we should be and likely encourages the behavior, but we do like to get along when possible.
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and it's a shame you have to do things this way, but people leave you no choice. we tell people straight out in the profile, our playtime is limited so we do our best to make the most of it.
no face and body pics, no couple to couple meet. at least if we meet at a club or party, we can move on if we've been lied to. |
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Without pics we only agree to meet at LS Club, then no time is wasted.
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oh now you did it. we're blushing.
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Hmmm, we like what we see with you and K! : )
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we've said it a hundred times but it's still true... most of the time.
no pics of him... he's looks like something the dog dug up boob pics only of her... she's heavy there are exceptions. the mission, should you accept it... find them |
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Why would that be a problem if someone opens up their face and body pics to you. Are you saying you don't trade pics with people you're hoping to meet? When we first started playing, we thought body shots were all that were needed. They don't have to be models, right? Until we showed up at a meet and the guy was the spitting image of my brother. We had a very nice dinner with the couple (we don't play on first meet), and afterwards I had to write him an e-mail explaining the situation. I hope he believed me.
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Thank you for agreeing with me. Also, full body pics are a must!!!
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Laughing...why do you agree to meet with a couple when you haven't seen the male?! We've never done that and you shouldn't, either...damn right it's not fair! We also insist on face pics. There has to be attraction, right?
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Why do most folks refuse to post pictures of their man?
ANSWER: The man has made no effort to stay fit, while the woman has taken very good care of herself. We've posted on this before and it's a real irritant to the Mrs here that men get see what to expect and the women have to wait until the meeting wondering if in picking door number three its the Hawaiian vacation or the sack full of potatoes. Not fair. |
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TOPIC: Why do most folks refuse to post pictures of their man
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