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Created by: tnt742 Original Starting post for this thread:
We have been on the site for about 3 mo. and it seems like most of the messages we get are from older couples or couples we are not attracted to :( Attraction is very important to us because we are very happily married and not looking to replace each other this is purely fun for us. (sorry to get off subject) Anytime we send out a message to a couple that looks fun to us we are ignored. Is something wrong with our profile?

Created by: tnt742
Original Starting post for this thread:

We have been on the site for about 3 mo. and it seems like most of the messages we get are from older couples or couples we are not attracted to :( Attraction is very important to us because we are very happily married and not looking to replace each other this is purely fun for us. (sorry to get off subject) Anytime we send out a message to a couple that looks fun to us we are ignored. Is something wrong with our profile?

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User Details are only visible to members.	Rdy so you're 47 but only 20 on the horse? I love horses and had on when I was in high school, but my wife thinks they are too expensive to keep so I need to convince her otherwise.
Edmond OK			Username hidden (1190 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	There's a horse in her pic? I just thought she was tall :-)
Edmond OK			Username hidden (1190 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Crazy. Exactly. Ha ha.
San Quentin CA			Username hidden (8604 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Crazy, the thread was about TNT...not Rdy2. Rdy2's profile is great, no grammar worries, so I'm not sure what you're talking about. Regarding your comment about her pic...I've had the wonderful privilege of meeting Rdy2 in person and can assure you she is just as lovely as her pics! Kat
Morgantown PA			Username hidden (2965 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hi TNT~~ Great advice from TF3. The best advice is to read the profile out loud and insert commas!! The overall tone is friendly, but very generic...nothing pops out or distinguishes your profile from others. You definitely need to jazz up the profile and put some more personality into it. I just wanted to address something in your OP: "Attraction is very important to us because we are very happily married and not looking to replace each other.." I'm afraid you really don't understand the LS if you feel that those of us who play are primarily looking to replace our spouse/partner. Nothing further from the truth. In fact, the only way we're able to play is because of the strength of our relationship and attraction to each other. We play perhaps once or twice a year. Yes, it's fun! But afterwards?!! OMG, NOTHING is better than "reclaiming" sex : ) Best wishes! Kat
Morgantown PA			Username hidden (2965 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	When we read your profile, the only criteria we saw in the first (what you are looking for) section was "a couple to have some fun with." That's it, that's all, nothing more. It is no surprise to us that "it seems like most of the messages [you] get are from older couples or couples [you] are not attracted to" when you don't tell anyone what you are really looking for. In your rewrite, don't forget a definition of your "very important" attractive. When rewriting section two, review your (lack of) punctuation use. Currently the second section is one long run-on sentence very hard to know where one thought ends and another thought begins because you don't use any punctuation within so we really don't know what you or she are like making it almost a pointless resource for us to determine if you are or are not a match for us when we read your profile and you make no mention of being happily married and not looking to replace each other this is purely fun for you. The best advice I can offer you at this stage is read through your profile -- out loud -- with each taking turns being the reader while the other is listening. Make note of what doesn't sound right, rewrite and read it again. TF3
Saint Paul MN			Username hidden (467 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Your profile seems good but I see one big issue with your pics. No smile, you look bored. I know we hide our faces in the public pics but we do smile in our private ones. I'd re-shoot them and smile, look like you're having fun. The only other thing is give it some time. We may go weeks with no e-mails then 3 or 4 on the same day.
Edmond OK			Username hidden (1190 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have been on the site for about 3 mo. and it seems like most of the messages we get are from older couples or couples we are not attracted to :( Attraction is very important to us because we are very happily married and not looking to replace each other this is purely fun for us. (sorry to get off subject) Anytime we send out a message to a couple that looks fun to us we are ignored. Is something wrong with our profile?
Rantoul IL			Username hidden (8 post)

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