We could use some help with profile: Swingers Discussion 180992

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We could use some help with profile: Swingers Discussion 180992

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TOPIC: We could use some help with profile

Created by: bryonboru Original Starting post for this thread:
We have been on the site since last year, so far we have had very few hit or even people responding to our emails. We was wondering if y'all could review our profile to provide feedback. Ruth & Brian

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User Details are only visible to members.	cool profile! Some fun pics of you guys together? Hot pics, maybe some group pics?
Fayetteville NC			Username hidden (19 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	And then there's the pictures, which is our biggest pet peeve of them all. People are very visual and a few quality pictures can easily overshadow the most poorly written profile (don't worry, your profile is FAR from the worst we've ever seen.) So considering just how much impact pictures can have, you want to make sure that they are sending a positive message and not a negative one. And here's what we see in your pics: The pink panties - Not a great pic, not bad either, but definitely not a great profile pic. This one would be fine somewhere in the middle of your album, but shouldn't be the first thing people see when looking at your profile. The bathroom pic - The bathroom is the single worst room in the house to take a picture in. There's clutter all over the vanity, towels thrown over the towel bar and clothes hanging on the door knob. There's nothing wrong with that, that's probably what most bathrooms look like on a daily basis. But no one wants to or needs to see it. So unless it's a picture of you in the tub or shower, no bathroom pics. (Too bad, because it's a pretty good pic of you...maybe you can crop out the background so the focus is on you instead) Face down on the bed - Maybe nit picking again, but pull the sheets all the way up on the bed. And is that a cat next to you? Lose the pets when taking sexy pics because we're focusing our attention on the wrong pussy in this pic. :-) People looking at that will probably wonder if the cat is going to be there during playtime. Ass up on the bed - Same as above. Him standing sideways - Take the phone out of his hand and snap the picture for him....from the front. And tell him to smile. His butt in jeans - Why? Her on the bike - Neutral again. Doesn't really do anything. Suggestions: Get a nice pic of the two of you together. Lose the background clutter and pets. Keep the pink pantie photo, just don't use it as your default pic. You're a couple, so use a couple pic. How about a pic of both of you on the bike? Get some better pics of hubby. He doesn't look happy in the first picture, he looks annoyed...probably because he's taking his own picture. This is your chance to really "sell" yourselves. Whether we want to admit it or not, our profiles are nothing more than little sales pitches to try and draw attention to ourselves and generate interest from others. You guys have a lot going on, especially with the motorcycle. Bikes are sexy so you really might want to make that the focal point of a few pictures. But not in your garage. Take a ride to a lake or river or someplace scenic and snap of a few pics. We hope that we didn't come across as overly critical or harsh. But we see a lot of ways that you can improve your profile and increase your chances of meeting new couples and fulfilling some of your fantasies. We look forward to checking back to see if you made some changes and if they paid off for you. And if you have any questions don't hesitate to drop us a quick note. We'd be happy to help. :-) Good luck!
Danville PA			Username hidden (1847 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We've got some suggestions for you but we think our response might have been too "wordy" so we're splitting it up into multiple posts. ------------------ Going to be blunt because if we sugar coat it, then something could get lost in interpretation. Lose all the "virgin" talk and especially the "Who wants our cherries?" part. The title is supposed to be an attention gainer, but you're gaining the wrong type of attention. It comes off seeming a little desperate to be honest. And definitely lose the "mentor" thing as well. Sounds like you're looking for Yoda. Instead, replace mentor with "experienced couple" or something to that effect. It's great that you talk about how you're just starting out and want someone to show you the ropes, you just need to use more appealing words. Mentor almost makes it sound like you want someone to baby sit you or walk you through it. In other words, the experienced couple is doing all the work and you're reaping the benefits. Maybe most people don't care about something like this, but what's up with the randomly capitalized words throughout your profile? Ex: "friends with Benefits." If the capital B is to emphasize that you are seeking a sexual relationship, that's already implied just by being here. So what you might actually be implying is that you want sex and even more benefits. There's also quite a few grammar and spelling errors throughout. And it just doesn't flow well from top to bottom. The fantasies section starts out just fine by stating that you're looking to start out just watching another couple or maybe some soft swap. That's perfect. But your individual fantasies aren't anything that anyone else would fantasize about. The female wants to get turned on by a younger man. That's great, but what's in it for the younger man? Is he going to turn you on and then go sit in your living room to watch television while you go at it with your hubby? And his fantasy is just getting turned on. Why does he fantasize about getting turned on? Doesn't the wife turn him on? Is he difficult to turn on? Most women would probably think that there's going to be way too much work involved. Take the opportunity to tell people about things you'd like to try, both as individuals and as a couple. That way when people are reading it they might say to themselves "We'd like to try that too" or "We've already done that but it was fun and we'd love to do it again."
Danville PA			Username hidden (1847 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Only thing I can think of is that unless another couple is partial to mentoring, people will not actively seek mentees. Additionally, you say you are virgins, and I assume that is with respect to swinging, but someone could see that and think 40 Year Old Virgin. Its a small thing I'll admit, but a little extra clarity never hurts. I know someone will disagree with me, but try a club to meet people. You can get a bit of watching and being watched done very easily at the on premise places. -M
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (1434 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have been on the site since last year, so far we have had very few hit or even people responding to our emails. We was wondering if y'all could review our profile to provide feedback. Ruth & Brian
Cpu Pace FL			Username hidden (48 post)

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