Too much emphasis on certs yes or no: Swingers Discussion 2078411011

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Too much emphasis on certs yes or no: Swingers Discussion 2078411011

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TOPIC: Too much emphasis on certs yes or no

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User Details are only visible to members.	You need to justify not having ANY certs if you've been on here a long time. It's not who YOU think you are, it's how WE think you are and if you're worth meeting. If you go to parties a lot you'll meet people face to face and you'll get action that way. No certs are needed. But if you've been really playing with people who think you're pretty cool, why not have a few certs from them? Profiles, pics, and certs are only ways to get to meet people. If you go to the local sex club, you don't even need to be online nor be a member. Figure out what works for you and if you're if you're getting all the sex you want, you've got a winning formula.
Southington CT			Username hidden (325 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We don't put a lot of stock in certifications. Way too easy to fake. We used to have some, but they went away as people left the LS and deleted profiles. It's not something you can control, unless you go about begging people to certify you, which is something we would never do. If a profile has certs, we will take a look, but if not we really don't think much of it. I do think it's funny to see a profile that states something along the lines of "Discretion and privacy is a must!" but then they have 20 certs, all talking about how good they fuck. Doesn't sound very discrete to me.
Modesto CA			Username hidden (133 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The use of certs in vetting a single guy has been valuable to us. We do Parties, clubs, and connections through this site, and still we find the lifestyle a little circular. I am surprised at how many times a single guy with certs has spent time with people we know.
Pasadena CA			Username hidden (175 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Livewire, Def my bad, personal attacks have no place here, and rereading my post, it looks like I crossed the line. Please try to accept that if someone has certs, they aren't necessarily bedpost notchers or showing off their promiscuity. Nor do certs indicate if you're a slut or even if you're good in bed or not. The only purpose of a cert is to show that you are real, you represent what is described in your profile, and that you actually meet with others. If you can read anything else into them that is up to you.
Virginia Beach VA			Username hidden (268 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Losamantes - Nothing in my post was a personal attack against you but obviously I've hit a nerve with you. I've always respected your comments here on the fora but your personal attack of us with your statement "question whether we're good in the sack, from our post, think not. Try Match or too many fish" is completely uncalled for. Not everyone has to have herd mentality. We can different opinions on what certs mean to each of us. You expressed yours and I expressed mine. Nowhere did I mention Losamantes in my post. Everyone here is entitled to their opinion without being insulted in return.
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (895 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Seriously, certs are second only to pics when we're screening profiles. Pass those two tests and we will read your profile.
Virginia Beach VA			Username hidden (268 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I've read several posts today, on three different threads, that bring up the topic of certs. Mostly on how some here on SLS rely on them to weed out the flakes and fakes. In response to the OP, we consider certs to be important when looking for single males. That's it. Certs for couples and single females represent, in my opinion, a notch on the bedpost. It's a journal entry into the couple's or single female's diary of promiscuity. They leave a trail a mile long and there's never the right number of them - too many and you're labeled a slut; too few and people question whether you're good in the sack.
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (895 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Certs also verify you're a couple not some freak ass single droid hitting up couples under the pretense of playing. We're pretty selective about what certs we accept so anything over the top or of a sexual nature will not be accepted. We also rarely give certs, if we gave someone a cert it is because they are above the norm, both their character and behavior exemplify what the lifestyle represents but more importantly that their profile was a true reflection of them both in personality and physical description. Certs for us are just another in a series of tools we use to weed out the masses. Not having certs isn't a deal breaker and sometimes the certs you have are definitely a deal breaker. I am a firm believer that the one should use whatever "tools" available to be as assured as possible that no one is wasting time meeting another. When it comes to "couples" or "single " men the IM feature (which we hardly use) is a great tool. If you really want to know something about a stranger never admit you are the male half responding. You'd be amazed at what comes out of their mouths when they believe it is the female half of the couple they are speaking to. In less than 2 minutes that "hi how are you" is turned into "can I see your tits ? How about you and I meet alone ?" etc etc. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4008 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Certs attempt to verify that you've met or been with people who think certs are important.
Flat Rock NC			Username hidden (2787 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks all - that's what I kind of figured......we had conversations with some and that some thought it was the end all......we just don't see the need, and we don't intend on being online for years to come anyway......little doses otherwise it looses the appeal - but that another story for another day... lol
Melville NY			Username hidden (31 post)

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