Too much emphasis on certs yes or no: Swingers Discussion 2078411021

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Too much emphasis on certs yes or no: Swingers Discussion 2078411021

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User Details are only visible to members.	Ahh, the cert issue raises it's head again. We didn't accecpt any certs our first year on SLS but changed our minds after we became more experienced. We started relying more on certs as an important part of the screening process because we travel quite a bit. Certs show us that you actually play and the types of people you play with. In some cases certs can provide more information than the profile itself. The verbage in the cert isn't too important, we just want to know that you actually play and that you don't have ten certs from meet and greets. If you've been on sls a couple of years with no certs it's a big red flag, at least for us.
Virginia Beach VA			Username hidden (268 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think alot of people feel like you Ducati. Whatever works... I don't care either way about certs. Sometimes they help, sometimes they don't.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	OK.....just an observation (our opinion) regarding the over emphasis on being certified in some shape or form here...... We likely will never embrace it...... why? having others post about experiences we may or may not have shared, really doesn't matter nor does it truly validate who we are or not.......and we have been offered - it simply doesn't add credence for us or how we wish to roll overall.......we get enough of a vibe through dialogue with the other parties, if indeed they are for us or not......certainly we know how good we are and if we click with someone, we don't need to see or hear the reviews - we already know beforehand how good we are :) lol It also does not minimize the flake factor, or the willingness of people to meet each other.....certified people are just as flaky as the next group......we have not seen any difference...... I'm sure this position will upset those who live for certs - :) that's ok, it works for you and you believe in it....... We do not see having many certs as being an attribute for us or actually what we look for in our search - but it works more as a negative in most cases, but again that's our opinion..... :)
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