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TOPIC: Too intimidating for single females Critique needed

Created by: RacerX9 Original Starting post for this thread:
1. Can we improve this profile to not intimidate single ladies. 2. Does it come across that it is J who perfers only women (which is the truth) or does seem like the standard line of "It's the dude that does not want her to be with a man". Heck, I have tried to softly encourage her, but she likes what she likes. It's never a problem at the club. In fact very popular, but on here............these are the emails we frequently get. Is it because there are more men who "filter" this site............and women "filter" more in person at a party, club or beach bar? Thank you, T

Created by: RacerX9
Original Starting post for this thread:

1. Can we improve this profile to not intimidate single ladies. 2. Does it come across that it is J who perfers only women (which is the truth) or does seem like the standard line of "It's the dude that does not want her to be with a man". Heck, I have tried to softly encourage her, but she likes what she likes. It's never a problem at the club. In fact very popular, but on here............these are the emails we frequently get. Is it because there are more men who "filter" this site............and women "filter" more in person at a party, club or beach bar? Thank you, T

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User Details are only visible to members.	Hey, Totalbabe, thank you for your critique of our profile. I implemented some of your changes. Should work better.
Bonneau SC			Username hidden (105 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	RacerX9, welcome to the forums! Make yourself at home and have fun reading and posting! So you want to know, how your profile looks to a single female... Please, be advised, that it is only my personal point of view, and hopefully you will receive advice from others as well, so you will be able to find the best combination of what might work better in the future. First off, your profile says, while playing with a couple, "the main focus is on the girl/girl scene with some slight soft-swap on occasion". Yet you indicate you are interested in "wild" activities, aka full swap, as per interest bars at the top of the profile. That alone will turn many people off and will make them think of you as misleading. Of course, you should do whatever makes you happy the most, but possibly you should adjust those indicators. Next thing, I applaud your athletic streak and pursuit of healthy life. But many people will simply feel intimidated by it. I almost want to say, you come across as too energetic and hyper. I am not in bad shape by any means, but just recently I had stopped smoking (hey, I am trying to pursuit a healthier way of life as well, lol), and I put on 10 pounds in no time (BTW, my weight reflects that unfortunate gain). While hardly noticeable, I can feel the tightness of my clothes and I am still very conscious about it. How about folks, who do realize, they have some more than 10 extra pounds on them? We all know, no one is perfect, but just the pictures of you lifting weights might scare some people. It is kind of funny, because you do not even demand "HWP only", like so many do. I understand, you are very proud of your achievements, but it might be the reason for some to feel intimidated. Next, you have probably heard by now, how hard it is to find that proverbial lifestyle unicorn. I want to say, it will be even harder to find a single woman, who is as much into women as your female half is. Hey, I am a single bi female, I do play with women, I do go down on them, I enjoy it, but in the end I have to have a man. Your stipulation would never work for me. I tried toys, I do not like them, I could not care less what your female half can do with her strap on. I want a real man. Please keep in mind, it is just me! I have seen an occasional profile of a single bi female, that says, she wants to be with women, but they are free members with no pictures and no certifications, so most likely they are fakes. I would say, you will have more luck with soft swap couples. I have been contacted quite a few times by couples looking for the same experience as you do, and I declined them all, because it is not what I want. What I am saying, there are soft swap couples, who want mainly FF play with light soft swap. Single females? I don't think so. On the last note: the first part of your profile is very confusing. It seems to me you have copied that from a profile you might have on another site??? And to be exact, sure, everyone can sign up for free profile with SLS, but free members can only see the thumbnails of the first 5 pictures, and they will not see pictures with nudity in them. Bottom line: I would not contact you, because you are not what I am looking for. Of course that does not mean, you should give up! I am just saying, to find a single woman, who is so much into women, will be extremely hard. Hell, many of those self-proclaimed single women are not even single. You will have more luck with soft swap couples. I wish you lots of good times in your adventures!
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1927 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	1. Can we improve this profile to not intimidate single ladies. 2. Does it come across that it is J who perfers only women (which is the truth) or does seem like the standard line of "It's the dude that does not want her to be with a man". Heck, I have tried to softly encourage her, but she likes what she likes. It's never a problem at the club. In fact very popular, but on here............these are the emails we frequently get. Is it because there are more men who "filter" this site............and women "filter" more in person at a party, club or beach bar? Thank you, T
Bonneau SC			Username hidden (105 post)

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