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TOPIC: Throwing a successful swingers' party
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just our opinion here: the only way to control it is by making it an "invitation only" party. we rarely do open parties any more. we are fortunate to have a standing invitation to a couple of regular "invitation only" parties and that is where we prefer to be because we know the hosts and we know the kind of people they invite to their parties. these are also known as "everybody is fucking hot" parties. luckily for me, K is hot enough that they allow my goofy ass to tag along.

from what we've experienced, you have to be willing to pursue people aggressively. in fact, the host of our favorite IO party was so aggressive with us, that we turned him down numerous times before ever giving in and trying it out. once we did, we couldn't believe we had held out so long. it was SO worth it. these days we would rarely attend an open party unless we just get bored and want to do something different.

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I'd say send out invitations to those you are interested in having attend. Probably twice as many at least as you want to come since people are busy (and that is assuming you already know them).

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If you ever find the secret formula to getting responses strictly from the crowd you desire, I'll gladly fork over a few months salary to get it.

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TOPIC: Throwing a successful swingers' party