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TOPIC: The ufo's

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User Details are only visible to members.	PF ... We actually had a couple that we had set up a meeting with. Just a general first meet and greet type of thing. Had actually already picked a place and all had agreed to it. We were going to a movie, they were going to go to diner; then we were all going to meet for drinks. We spoke with them, on the phone, just before our movie and verified the time and location. They never showed! In the space of two hours, something happened to change their minds. We never heard from them again, so we don't know what happened. It's not like they didn't have our phone number to let us know that : A kid had gotten sick. They got called into work. Some family member had died. They just changed their minds. Makes me wonder why people even bother to join a site like this one. We seldom refuse a meet. (Our meeting people is actually based on distance) I love meeting new people! My theory is, you never know who you will meet and what you will learn. It's not hard to be polite over drinks or diner ... even if you don't click. So, no. It's not just you that this irritates.
Tyler TX			Username hidden (48 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	(1) We do not engage in more than two (2) emails or IM's with anyone. Just to avoid those who only want a pen pal, you cannot waste multiple messages. (2) Then we move on to the next step, which is talking by phone. This allows us to judge if the person can carry on a real conversation if in person, and if the person is really the type of person they claim (e.g., a male, a female, an adult, race, education. and if they meet the other characteristics shown). We are NOT eliminating anyone based on WHAT they are UNLESS they have misrepresented themselves, and we can determine that in a phone call. (3) We will meet first in a neutral public setting, such as in a restaurant for a cup or coffee or a sandwich, so that it can be brief in indicated. (4) Then we will agree on meeting for dinner, drinks, dancing, etc., to begin an enjoyable evening. This is the final screening step. (5) If all has gone well and everyone agrees, we will adjourn to your place or ours (which may be your hotel room if you are visiting). Then the whole reason for meeting at all will begin to bear fruit as clothes begin to pile up on the floor and furniture, and peolle begin to pile up on the bed for the rest of the evening's fun. NOTE: The fakers may drop out of the process at any step, but the farther they proceed, the less chance it will occur.
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TOPIC: The ufo's