Taking advice Please review profile: Swingers Discussion 213957

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Taking advice Please review profile: Swingers Discussion 213957

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TOPIC: Taking advice- Please review profile

Created by: volieff Original Starting post for this thread:
I am not having much luck connecting. I am open to comments on my profile. Please also let me know something. If someone is interested and and ask a questions or two. I offer my cell text. Perhaps too early. What is a rule of thumb, for such things? What is preferred video chat method? Skype? I see alot of people use messenger and I don't currently have an active account.

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User Details are only visible to members.	volieff, welcome to the fora! Actually, I am not sure, why you are having troubles connecting. Your profile is way ahead of many single men profiles on this site. I mean, it is written properly ( a few minor mistakes, such as "its" instead of "it's", or in your fantasy story, "funds" instead of "finds"... Don't fret; spell checker did not correct that, because the words, although misspelled, are still existing words), you have body and face pictures (kudos for the smile!!!), so the ingredients are there. Perhaps it could be your initial messages you send out? Best piece of advice being shared here is: stop e-mailing people. It works. Seems counterproductive, but it works. It will make people wonder, that they see this single male profile, and, against the stereotype, they have not heard from him! Of course, there are some people, who are very much into single men, and if their profile strongly encourages contact, then perhaps you should go for it. Either way, make sure, you read the complete profiles, and follow people's requests. For example, if they want you to title your e-mail with a code word, just do so. If they want more details, perhaps you should stick with e-mails until they are ready for a telephone number. You might offer the option, but do not give them your number, unless they ask. Some people do want to chat, but actually, I am thinking that most paid members do prefer e-mails. Chat, especially on outside sites, such as Y is the feature mostly used by free members, because they are limited in their emails they can send (5 a day), as well as picture viewing (no nudes, and they have no access to any private or personal pictures). I found this line "threesome with the husband and without him" somewhat odd. It might suggest that you might try to get the wife to meet you alone. Most couple will not go for that. Some do play separately, but usually it is clearly mentioned in the profile. As it is, you might be perceived as a potential threat to a relationship. And saying that you are open to a lot of play just did not sit well with me. Just my opinion, but that expression might suggest that you are occupied with the lifestyle perhaps just a little bit too much. Anyway, if you do reach out first, be polite, respectful, use proper language, always write like you are talking to both of them, and make it personal by referencing to something that you had read in their profile. I always get the kick out of those mass copy and paste e-mails from single guys, where they write to me "you guys" and "she is hot". I mean, if you do contact a single woman, make it sound like you talk to one person, lol. You might want to have a picture of your tool, but separate in a personal gallery, and open only when requested. Some people do want to see it! Just don't supply before invited to do so :) You might have more luck if you decided to attend some local Meet & Greets. In person, the pictures and profile are not that important. Most importantly, don't make this your only hobby. This is supposed to be fun distraction. Also, if something does not sit well with you, don't be afraid to decline. You will find, that the best experiences are those, where ALL involved are attracted. Don't try to jump into something too fast, just because there is a possibility of play. Good luck!
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User Details are only visible to members.	I am not having much luck connecting. I am open to comments on my profile. Please also let me know something. If someone is interested and and ask a questions or two. I offer my cell text. Perhaps too early. What is a rule of thumb, for such things? What is preferred video chat method? Skype? I see alot of people use messenger and I don't currently have an active account.
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TOPIC: Taking advice- Please review profile