Honesty is the best policy. Most people here can smell a rat a mile away and if you play games you'll be playing alone. Do not brag. Do not be competitive. Do not try to deceive anyone. If you are easy going and nice people will respond to you. We're all here for pretty much the same reason, just go with it. There are real people here and they will meet you. Try to understand that patience and timing have a lot to do with it. I just had the opportunity to be intimate with a great couple that lives 3 miles away from me. I thought they were out of my league because she is younger and so beautiful. I have always been nice and honest with them and out of the blue the husband sent me a note here. We had a great time together and have become close. It took 3 years... If you want instant hook ups, find a hooker. That's not what swinging is about.

Appologies, I didn't know the rules of this board. Just signed up yesterday and was hoping to chat and make a few friends here.

in our group we have a few single males that we have met and is now always at our parties because we are comfortable with them. i find it strange that in your length of time in the LS you have not found people that enjoy your company. possibly the previous post here is correct?

"Single guys get a lot of grief in TLS. I've been doing this for nearly the last decade and it's been a constant uphill struggle. If there are any tips you could suggest to help out it would be very much appreciated." Tip: Don't post "check out my profile" to the discussion forums. Are you that desperate or just another clueless single male? I gave you the benefit of doubt as a single male seeking profile advice...until looking at your forum activity. Do yourself a favor, delete your other posts. Do yourself a second favor, learn the difference between Forums and Hotdates. From what I've seen so far, I'm guessing your uphill struggle is mostly self-induced, perpetuating the single male stereotypes :( My overall feeling is you aren't serious about improving your profile inasmuch as getting people to take a look at it in hopes of hooking up...

Single guys get a lot of grief in TLS. I've been doing this for nearly the last decade and it's been a constant uphill struggle. If there are any tips you could suggest to help out it would be very much appreciated.