I think you have a very well-written profile and there aren't too many questions left unanswered. You even state that yes, it seems paradoxical. I think narrowing it down as you did, you will find what you're looking for, or at least you will find others who are curious and want to see what it's all about. It might take some patience on your part, and also some amount of perserverance. Good luck! I wouldn't change a thing...you sound intelligent and secure and sexy. I think I'd take the advice of not adding a weight-number preference...what do you think? I think just saying that you're interested in big burly guys would be enough. Enjoy! Gina

boobies are always a good default pic.

no problem. i am afraid that most straight guys won't go for him being a second woman so to speak... good luck

and let me just add that i see that you are not interested in gay or bi men.. now i guess i am really confused, haha... again it is early in the morning!!

maybe it would be better to say u are looking for a dominant male??

read your profile...

guess my first thought is that i am not soo sure what u are looking for. u say essentially it would be a FFM experience. i assume you men ur husband is the second "F". but are u looking for a "bi" experience with him or is it that you are looking to get satisfied while he watches... i was a little unclear on that although it is early in the morning.

also, limiting urselves to big guys over 230 may create a small selection group.

like the default although i may add some body shots of him and u.

good luck!