Sounds like you're already heading in the right direction. As already mentioned, your profile could really use a more in-depth description of yourselves. And you know a cliche, a picture is worth a thousand words. Well it's especially true on dating/swinging sites. We're all here for sex. Now some might be here looking for friendship or long term relationships or whatever, but the common denominator is sex. And the desire to have sex with others is largely based on physical attraction. Don't know if I'm physically attracted to you if I can't see you. And to be honest, you could have the most well written and engaging profile ever and it still won't be nearly as successful as a poorly written profile with a few quality pics. I'll be totally honest, if I open a profile and there aren't any pics then I won't bother reading it. Close it and move on to the next one. Call me shallow or whatever you want, but we didn't come here looking for best friends and life partners. We came looking for sex. Now if we happen to really click with other people and form a solid relationship that extends out of the bedroom, that's great....but it's not requirement for us and I suspect that the same holds true for the majority of people around here. I totally understand the desire to keep your faces off of this site. But you could still throw a few pics up with your faces covered that will give others an idea of what you look like. And since you seem to be really concerned about it, don't use pics that are in the family photo album. Go out and take a few pics that no one has seen and take them in places that are "neutral" to you. In other words, don't take them with your house in the background or at your favorite restaurant. And don't wear your favorite shirt that family and friends have seen you in a thousand times. If you have to, spend a few bucks and buy something new. You've got certs so that tells me you've had success in the past. But the most recent one is like 2 years old so I'd say it's definitely time for you guys to make some updates. Best of luck.

Thanks, folks, we are in total rewrite mode. I see we failed miserably in some areas that we though we had covered adequately... but that is the beauty of getting input from another set of eyes. As for pictures... yes, it is child's play to capture pictures off of any website. All we realistically expect is plausible deniability. If you see a identifiable picture *ON* this site... BUSTED! But, we have very vanilla pictures on the web in a very vanilla site. We'll send you one of those and, obviously, if you have one of those, that is where you got it! Actually, we are re-evaluating putting tasteful non-face pics up. Please keep up the critique....

Why Thank you very much JK4 , I just happen to be the smartest dumb blonde I know ....street smart that is lol.
Mrs Sav

as usual, MRS SAV is more than just a pretty ass, she makes several good points. ;-) one thing i might add. most of us understand the need for discretion with the pics. however, for the most part, you're pics are safer here than on an email system. PLEASE>>> at this point, some are already pounding the keyboard with stories of stolen pics from these sites. yes, we know it CAN happen, but at least here, you actually have to make an effort, and the average member here does not possess that knowledge. once you send a pic by email, you no longer have any control over where it goes or who may end up with it. just a thought.

As to your profile it doesn't really give much indictation to who you both are personality wise. Are you humorous, sarcastic or witty. Maybe try putting a bit more of yourselves into it. You also don't mention much about your sexual preferences or play style other than no pain and "if it feels good do it" which is a very broad statement. ....perhaps too broad. It leaves a lot of room to form opinions that might not be accurate. For instance do you play together or alone, are you into bondage whips and chains, maybe you like animals and dirty play, maybe one or the other just likes to watch, open to male Bi play ...the list is endless of things people can read into a statement like that that might not be accurate. That in its self can be a deterrent with getting contacted. My suggestion is you read others profiles (no looking at photos since you show none) and see what attracts you about what they've written...why do you want to contact them over anyone else? Than go back and incorporate some of the traits you find attractive in others into your own profile. Without having photos posted you really need to "grab" their attention immediately with a great profile that gives them a sense of who you are. Face it you really only have one chance to make an impression and so you've got to make it interesting. Many people will simply pass you by if they have to work to learn what you want, what you have to offer and most aren't going to invest that time without some indictation that there's a level of attraction. Mrs Sav

Could we get some creative eyes to peek at our profile for an opinion and constructive criticism. We are no longer getting ANY hits. Can a profile become "stale?" What can we do to generate more interest.....