I have to ask - do you have your partner's permission to play seperately? One way or the other, you should say. (You say you are just being honest - are you being honest with her?) Personally, we would not play with a guy in a relationship until I had spoken with the female half - but maybe some would? No need to try to justify or explain why you don't accept or give certs - just say so. With no certs, you may find it more difficult to link up - but no doubt there are people who don't care and would be glad to play.

Any input that you have is appreciated....