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Created by: 79camaro Original Starting post for this thread:
Why are there so many skimpy profiles? I thought your profile was to tell people about yourself and what you are looking for. (For example: What are you like? Sense of humor? Hint around about your hobbies, because we need something in common to talk about and to know that you are deeper than just sex.) I just love it when people message us saying that we have so much in common, well, what do we have in common? Because, when I check their profile there is hardly any info on it. How are we supposed to determine commonality when your profile is so skimpy? Another complaint is where are your pics? We just dislike it when a profile has only boob or ass pics or no pics at all. We want to see your face. If you are not comfortable putting your face on your profile, then at least include a face shot of both partners when messaging us, because apparently you are contacting us because find one or both of us a little attractive, how are to return the favor if you do not include a pic? Also, please read our entire profile before contacting because if you do not want to be with someone who smokes, then don’t contact a smoker (seems simple enough) I am not going to change my habit, so either accept us smokers or don’t bother contacting. Ok enough of my ranting and raving just had to get some things off my chest.

Created by: 79camaro
Original Starting post for this thread:

Why are there so many skimpy profiles?  I thought your profile was to tell people about yourself and what you are looking for.  (For example:  What are you like?  Sense of humor? Hint around about your hobbies, because we need something in common to talk about and to know that you are deeper than just sex.)  I just love it when people message us saying that we have so much in common, well, what do we have in common?   Because, when I check their profile there is hardly any info on it.  How are we supposed to determine commonality when your profile is so skimpy?   

Another complaint is where are your pics?  We just dislike it when a profile has only boob or ass pics or no pics at all.  We want to see your face.  If you are not comfortable putting your face on your profile, then at least include a face shot of both partners when messaging us, because apparently you are contacting us because find one or both of us a little attractive, how are to return the favor if you do not include a pic?   

Also, please read our entire profile before contacting because if you do not want to be with someone who smokes, then don’t contact a smoker (seems simple enough) I am not going to change my habit, so either accept us smokers or don’t bother contacting.

Ok enough of my ranting and raving just had to get some things off my chest.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Actually I think it's only 12 last time I checked, but def more than 3. They even grew it in the white house garden this year.
Grand Blanc MI			Username hidden (143 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Only in 16 states and only for those like you who have a medical state issued card lol is it really in 16 states .... I thought it was just California, Oregon, and Michigan.... it will be on our ballot to legalize it period here in MI...... still could not smoke it, I would lose my CDL
Berrien Sprgs MI			Username hidden (85 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Ya except weed is legal and coke and heroin aren't. " Only in 16 states and only for those like you who have a medical state issued card lol. I've no opinion one way or the other about it's use, just saying . Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4071 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I know what you mean. I have been contacted by people who hate smokers, apparently they did not see in our profile that I am a smoker. If they hate smokers then why bother contacting one who does, because there is no way in hell that I am changing for them. Oh if only you lived closer to our little corner of Michigan ..... the black hole of fun.
Berrien Sprgs MI			Username hidden (85 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ya except weed is legal and coke and heroin aren't. BTW though, alcohol is a drug....
Grand Blanc MI			Username hidden (143 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sweetart, too bad you don't live closer to PA, because my husband has more than the six-pack....He got the whole damn keg! LOL I know what you mean. I have been contacted by people who hate smokers, apparently they did not see in our profile that I am a smoker. If they hate smokers then why bother contacting one who does, because there is no way in hell that I am changing for them. T
Denver PA			Username hidden (25 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"When they say D&D free, I just assume they aren't snorting coke or shooting up in the bathroom. " Maybe they too consider themselves drug free and only do it at night ;) Just saying lol Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4071 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sweet, We are 420 friendly but consider ourselves drug free. I have my card for medical use. I smoke only at night before bed. Even if I didn't use, I would still be 420 friendly because I don't mind it. I myself (and think a lot of others) don't really look at mari-jane as a drug so to speak. When they say D&D free, I just assume they aren't snorting coke or shooting up in the bathroom.
Grand Blanc MI			Username hidden (143 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We do play with single males, and have tried to be detailed about the physical type of men she likes and have even listed three well know celebrities as an example (Keven James,Guy Fieri,and Adam Richman) ,the problem is they either can't read or think they are the exception.We are always getting mail for some guy who is like 5'7' 160 or some gym rat. We always clearly state that we are 420 friendly and guess what. we are still get emails for people that list themselves as drug free.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2191 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	John , you are too kind but thank you. Perhaps your preferences do play are part, I don't know. I do know that there are far more many bi men out there than profile status shows. Very sad at that ! It's bothersome that people are so insecure in their sexual identity or tired of judgments that they feel forced to lie. In any event SOME of those who complain I believe are merely stroking their own ego by claiming to be sooo overwhelmed with emails. Just my take on it based on our experiences in the lifestyle . Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4071 post)

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