You should get rid of the first pic (her wearing red). It is a nice pic but it looks kind of pixilated and blemishes your looks by making you look older than you really are.

When I read your profile, I was not too sure if you are full or soft swing. As the reader I would have to assume you are both but I don't know if you disapprove of one or the other. I am also not sure if you are prefer condoms or not (a major issue).

Hey Kate, welcome to the forums. You have a good sampling of pictures, including both of you so that's a great start. Try adding more as time and the mood strike. Taking pics is great foreplay anyway so you have no excuses. :^) Try and upload pics with better quality though as a couple seemed pretty pixelated as though taken with a low mp camera and/or highly cropped. I'd say your profile is OK, but kind of like a thousand other profiles here. Nothing bad but nothing that stands out and says...Hey these are people I NEED to know. It's just all pretty generic statements....'We like sex' 'We like everything' etc. As it stands it's kind of, meh. Try and be more specific, it will help focus people into whether they think you are compatible. Try and show your fun loving persona, your bubbly, humorous, goofy, stoic, personable, adventurous, sexy sides. It can be difficult to convey that in a profile. I think you'll find though that the more you tweak and try to do so, the more of your personality will come out in your writing. I tend to write the way I talk, I'm pretty goofy and don't mind that my writing reflects that. Find your niche and go with it. I wouldn't worry about what you may consider a drawback (ie your hwp comment), the beauty of this hobby is there are all kinds of people and all kinds of preferences. Best of luck!

Not sure if it is the fact that a lot of people on here only want "h/w p" cause i don't think I am that much of a hot mess :) Or It just might be that my profile needs more work. So any help would be nice. Promise a thank you drink to those close to me :)
~Kate